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Habakkuk: How to Make a Great Marriage Proposal


Author:Roger Barrier

Dear Roger, I am forty-years old and I am soon to get married for the first time. My fiancé is in her mid-thirties and never married either. I’d like to do something very special when I propose to her.  By the way, I am...[more]


Serial Monogamy? It's Everywhere!


Author:Roger Barrier

"Don't look now," said Steve, our associate pastor of counseling. "I see Don Perry sitting with his fourth wife. Wives one and three just walked up the aisle and sat down right behind them. In the interim wives...[more]


How Do I Handle Life's Second Bests?


Author:Roger Barrier

Dear Roger, My life is not turning out at all like I thought it would. I dreamed of marrying the right man, having a good job and a happy family. It hasn’t worked out that way at all. My husband is not a Christian and is...[more]


If I Don't Forgive, Will I Go to Hell?


Author:Roger Barrier

Dear Roger, Christians said that if you believe Jesus died for your sins, is the son of God and if you believe in him, your sins are forgiven. However, Jesus said on the mount sermon that if you do not forgive men their sins,...[more]


Why Don't Pastors Preach on Demons?


Author:Roger Barrier

Dear Roger,Our small group is reading through the New Testament together. I never realized how much of the Gospels was devoted to the subject of demons. I got to thinking that we hardly ever hear any sermons in church on demons....[more]


Pot-Smoking Alcoholic Pastor?


Author:Roger Barrier

Dear Roger, Hello, I date a minister and he smokes pot and drinks beer on daily basis and on Sundays he's in the pulpit, calling people to the altar, teaching Sunday School, members pouring out to him their problems, praying...[more]


Marrying a Muslim?


Author:Roger Barrier

Dear Roger, I am from Malaysia and we live in a country with mixed races. Islam is the main religion and whoever embrace Islam cannot be converted to other religion but if you are from other religion you are allowed to convert...[more]