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Mark Gregston

Mark Gregston

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Oct 3, 2025

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Mark and Jan first started working with teens when they were just 19 years old, as Young Life Leaders in Tulsa, Oklahoma. All through their college years, Mark and Jan worked with kids, got married, had kids of their own, and poured their life into their passion….struggling teens.


After spending 7 years on the First Methodist Church staff in Tulsa, Oklahoma, Mark and Jan moved to Branson, Missouri and lived at Kanakuk Kamp. During their time in Branson, Mark was the Area Director of Young Life, and started a residential counseling program for struggling teens, only to leave there in 1988 and move to Hallsville, Texas, when he started Heartlight Ministries.


During their 27 years in Texas, Heartlight has become one of the country’s finest residential counseling centers for teens, and known throughout North America as the “place to be” if your teen is struggling and hope is diminishing.


Mark has taken all the experience he has gained in working in the various youth ministry experiences and developed resources to help parents nationwide. He’s authored 12 books, has written hundreds of articles about parenting teens in a difficult culture, and is also the host of the nationally acclaimed radio program, Parenting Today’s Teens, which was honored to receive the 2014 Program of the Year award from the National Religious Broadcasters. These programs are heard on over 1,500 radio outlets throughout North America.


From his 40 years of experience of working with teens and their families, Mark shares his insight and wisdom through seminars, retreats, and conferences, taking up all his free weekends. . Mark’s wit and wisdom, shared through stories and reflections of his involvement with teens brings biblical insight and practical help to all who hear him share his heart about families and teens.


Lessons learned from those that have struggled with their teens, are communicated to parents preparing their child for the teen years, or find themselves caught in the turbulent adolescent years with their teen through the mediums of the spoken and written word.


Mark and his wife Jan, have been married for 40 years and have two children, both of whom are married and have blessed them with four wonderful grandchildren. Heartlight is family oriented, and family run. Their children work with them insuring there is always hope and help for families searching for something different in their parenting style.


Mark and Jan live on the Heartlight property with their llamas and horses, their donkey, Toy, their dog, Stich, and their cat, Knox.

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Apr 27, 20254 min
How You Can Have an Authentic Conversation with Your Teen
Authenticity is vital to having a healthy relationship with your teen. No teen is perfect, and neither is any parent! Until your child is able to know and share in your stories of imperfection, your relationship with your teen will not go deeper. Until you become authentic, your relationship with your teen will remain on the surface level. In this article, I’ll share how you can build a healthy habit of having authentic conversations with your teen. Let’s begin with describing what an...

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Aug 16, 20244 min
What Do You Do When Your Teenager Doesn't Want to Spend Time with You?
One-on-one time is critical to building any relationship. But what about when the other person avoids you at all costs? In this article, I’ll help parents figure out why their teens don’t want to spend time with them and how to draw teens back into a positive relationship. Figure Out WHY Your Teen Doesn’t Want to Spend Time with You There are relational styles in parenting that are not pleasant to be around. If you’re always telling your teen what he’s doing wrong, controlling his choices,...

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May 28, 20243 min
How Do I Know If My Teenager is in Trouble?
Worried about your son or daughter but not sure how to know how bad it really is? Answer the questions below and add up the score to see the results. 1. Your teen refuses to abide by anything you say or request, and his or her resulting behaviors put your him/her or your family in high danger or risk, leading to constant fear or stress in the home. 2. Your teen is displaying behavior that is a marked change from what has been normal (sleeping little or too long, forgetfulness, lack of...

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May 28, 20244 min
Learn to Talk to Your Teenager
Talking with teens has always been tricky for parents. But the age of social media has changed the dynamic of communication––they may talk more with their thumbs, and less with their mouths. But that doesn’t mean they’re not interested in connecting with you. In this article, I’ll share eight tips to help you keep the conversation with your teen alive and thriving. Tip #1––Talk For Your Teen’s Sake, Not For Yours Are you conversations with your teen centered around simply getting and giving...

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