Peace of Mind
- Craig Groeschel
- Jul 17, 2023
- 43 min read
Updated: Dec 12, 2025
- I'll be real, real honest with you and tell you that I never expected to be one that would break down. I always thought it was other people. I've had years of mostly consistent ministry. My highs aren't real high. My lows aren't real low. I just, year after year, decade after decade, have been blessed by God to just be consistent. I never thought that I would be one to break down. Others, maybe, but not me. And on the outside, most people didn't even know 'cause I still showed up and did what I know how to do. And I preached and I looked healthy and am healthy And my marriage with Amy has been good and was good, and on the outside, everything looked exactly the same. But on the inside, it was nothing but sheer panic. And I didn't see it coming. All I know is that it was a little by little, year over year, there was a little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a little more, and then I thought, "Maybe it's too much." And then there was a little more and then I thought, "I can't continue like this." And there was a little more and then I thought, "This is going to get me." And then there was a little more and then I thought, "This will probably kill me." Like it's gonna kill me. So is that too real? Do we have to play like church halo thing and I get I'm super pastor and I don't have real problems? - Come on. - Can we go there? I thought it was gonna kill me. And so, here I am almost three decades into ministry and I need help and I was embarrassed. Like I'm the pastor, you know, not just a Christian, but I'm the pastor. And sadly, there are some of you that can relate right now. There's a lot of people that can relate. Where outwardly, you're still showing up and you're still smiling and you're still trying to do your job. But inwardly, you're battling real depression. Or ongoing kind of chronic anxiety. Or you just feel just stressed. There's just too much. Like you just can't handle it all. Like you might just snap. You might just burn out. If you find yourself struggling mentally, you're not alone, and we're gonna talk about it. Over the next several weeks, we're gonna talk about mental health in a message series that I'm calling Peace of Mind. And the title for our first and foundational message, and it will be very foundational, you're gonna say, "Where's the rest of it?" The rest of it's coming. It's very foundational. But the title to build a foundation today is The Most Dangerous Myths of Mental Health. And what I wanna do is I wanna pray and open-eyed prayer, so you don't have to close your eyes. Jesus did say watch Him pray. And so, if you're driving and praying, you want to watch Him pray. And so, this is our open-eyed prayer. And this is my prayer for you. May God Himself, may our Heavenly Father, the one who loves you, who is called according to 1 Thessalonians 5:23. The God of peace. May the God of peace sanctify you, cleanse you, change you, through and through, through and through. May your whole spirit, soul, and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful, and scripture promises and He will do it. May the God of peace bring healing. Would you look at the person sitting next to you and just tell them right now, tell 'em God is my peace. Tell 'em God is my peace. Look at your second choice. The other one say, He's your peace too. Go ahead and tell 'em that right now. He's your peace too. You can type that in the chat if you're watching today. God is my peace. God is my peace. It's interesting. I'm glad things are improving in the church world. For years, people said that the church shouldn't talk about mental health. It was kind of something like it was somebody else's problem and it's not something we're gonna talk about in the church. And sometimes the implication would be that you shouldn't struggle mentally because if you're someone that comes to Jesus, then Jesus fixes everything. The moment you come to Jesus, you know, He's gonna... I'll try to do my country preacher voice. I only 1 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript have one. I always go, but He's gonna save ya! You know? He's gonna redeem your soul! He's gonna fill you with Holy Ghost power and He's gonna work... And maybe that's my voice, I don't even know. But He's gonna... He's gonna work in... He's gonna work in all things to bring about good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. And everything that I told you is true. He saves you. He forgives you. He redeems you. He fills you with His power. He'll never leave you. And everything does work together for good. All that's true, but it's incomplete. And what I'm about to say is gonna freak some people out and you can go join the blogs that say he's a heretic, you know, whatever. And this may freak you out, but it's true. Just because Jesus saves you, doesn't mean He fixes every air of your life instantly. Just because your sins are forgiven. I've never heard anyone say like, you know, I was reading the Bible and I called on Jesus and He saved me. And all of a sudden, I had abs. I've never, like... You know, praise the Lord. Here's my spiritual six-pack. I've never seen that happen before. You know, I came to the altar, I was crying, I gave my life to Jesus and my credit score improved. My hair got thicker. My thighs got thinner. #Blessed. I've never heard that. In other words, just because you come to Jesus, it doesn't mean that your boss is now nice to you or your bank account just instantly went up. Or when you came to Jesus, it doesn't mean that you instantly became mentally healthy. When we talk about mental health, you maybe say, what are we talking about? And I wanna try to kind of unpack this a little bit, because first of all, I wanna just acknowledge that I am a pastor. I'm not a Christian psychologist, not a doctor. And so, I'm not an expert, but I have read over a dozen books and have consulted in detail with two Christian counselors who are helping guide me through kind of a biblical narrative to present this in a way that would be helpful. But I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm not an expert at all. And so, I'm gonna focus more on the spiritual. But what I wanna do is acknowledge what mental health actually is. And mental health would include at least three things: your emotional, your psychological, and your social wellbeing. It's very, very important because our mental health, it's not actually static. Meaning you can be really healthy for a little while and then something happens or you have a change in your body, or you go through trauma, and you may be really healthy one moment and then you may be in a very bad place afterwards. And your mental health, it actually impacts how you think, which then impacts how you feel and then impacts how you act. Your mental health determines how you handle stress around you or how you relate to people or how you make choices or how you bounce back from a difficult situation or how you don't bounce back. Your mental health might determine how you cope if you go to the wrong sources for comfort, or if you make the right choices. It might determine even how you choose your friends or the quality or the not so quality of your marriage. And there are so many misunderstandings when it comes to mental health. I wanted to build a foundation today, and then we're gonna build on top of it. And I'm gonna show you the two mental health myths that I've noticed most in the church today. The first one, if you're taking notes, is this, a lot of Christians believe that Christians shouldn't struggle with mental health. That if you're a Christian, because you're filled with the Holy Spirit, because you've been saved, you shouldn't battle with anxiety or you really shouldn't be depressed or you shouldn't be burned out. And if you do struggle with one of these things, then it's probably your fault. In other words, you don't have enough faith or you're not praying enough. Or if you are praying a lot, you're not praying right. Or there's some kind of a sin in your life that you need to confess and get out of your life. And if you get that sin out of your life, then you're not gonna be anxious or you're not gonna be overwhelmed or you're not gonna be burned out or you're not gonna be struggling. What I wanna do is show you that you can love Jesus and still fight depression. You can be in the word. You can have the longest Bible streak in the 2 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript YouVersion Bible app of anybody in your life group and still battle with anxiety. You can attend church faithfully and sit on the front row and lift your hands for worship and tithe and serve in the two-year-old room. And still struggle to overcome trauma partially because it's traumatic to serve in the two-year-old room. When you look in scripture, some of the people that we preach about as heroes, the ones we look up to, the ones that are the heroes and the fathers and the mothers of the faith. With all their faith, they still had bouts with mental challenges. There was Elijah. I mean, think about this guy. This guy, he's cocky, man. I mean, he stands down 800 false prophets of Baal and he calls down fire from heaven one day. And shortly after, he's all alone, depressed, and he wants to die. David, a man after God's own heart who stands down the giant says, "Who are you to come against the armies of the living God?" And he battles with deep despair, wondering if God has abandoned him. Jeremiah. I don't wanna be Jeremiah 'cause he's called the weeping prophet. I wanna be the bold prophet, the confident, strong prophet and the prophet of God who declared God's truth. Battled with loneliness, insecurity, and he cursed the day that he was born. And so, if you find yourself like so many people today, you're struggling in your mental health and you don't know what to do. The message sometimes in the church is you just need more of God. You just need more of God. You just need more of God. You just need more of God. And I came to tell you that you do need more of God and you might need more sleep. Is that unspiritual? God designed us to... You might need better friends. You're not in a life group. And you wonder why you feel alone and disconnected and don't have people standing by you and praying for you. How in the world do you think you're gonna stand strong against the forces of darkness when you don't have friends of life standing nearby? We wanna take a holistic approach, and I don't necessarily mean like holistic medicine. I'm talking about our whole body's connected. Like you might need a better diet. You might need to go to a doctor and you might be having some hormonal changes. You might need to do some deep therapy or whatever the case would be. If you're struggling, and so many people are, I don't know if I can make it. I feel anxious. I feel depressed and I don't know why. And I'm praying and I'm trying and I'm going to church and I'm seeking God and I'm trying to do better, and I still just can't seem to make it. If you're struggling, it doesn't mean you're not a good Christian. It means you're human. It means you're human. And there's a myth. And it's a lot of time, you'll see it around the church that as Christians, shouldn't struggle with mental health. And there's another myth if you're taking notes and that is a lot of people say, well, God doesn't care about your mental health. He doesn't really care about that. He's too busy. He's got bigger problems. Have you seen what's going on in the world today? You think God has the time to deal with you trying to handle your freaky in-laws or whatever? He ain't have time for that. But when you look at scripture, especially the Psalms. Does anybody love the Psalms? Anybody love the Psalms? When you look at the Psalms, you're gonna see just how much God cares about every area of your life. I love the Psalm. I'll share just a few of them with you. Just to quote them. The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear? The Lord is close to the broken-hearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit. God is our refuge and our strength. He's our ever present help in a time of trouble. The Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He restores my soul. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for thou art with me, your rod and your staff. They comfort me. You will prepare for me a table in the presence of my enemies, and your mercy and goodness will follow me all the days. The Lord cares about you. He cares about you. Go to the Psalms to see how much He cares about you and go to the Psalms to see some people breaking down mentally. There's a lot of Psalms you want on your coffee mug, and I'm gonna show you one you don't. I'm gonna show you one you don't. Psalm 88 3 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript was written by a guy named Heman. Now, for those of you that might be about my age, when I was a kid, there was a cartoon character named He-Man who had a girlfriend named She-Ra, and they were both very muscular and immodest. And that was He-Man. This is a different Heman. I'm just saying, I don't know. I don't even know why I thought of that, but our Heman, okay. In the Bible, Heman is the guy that you wanted in your life. He was well respected. He was the one that everybody looked up to. And I wanna show you just some of the qualities we know about Heman from scripture. He had great wisdom. Very, very wise wisdom from the Lord. He was a talented musician. He was one of the worshipers and had incredible musical ability. He had a lot of kids and the implication is that he was a committed parent, very committed in his parenting. And he was very, very faithful in his service to the king. This was a man of God. This would've been the deacon at the church. This would've been the guy at work that you go to for advice. This is the guy you want for your father-in-law or your dad. This is a man of God. And I wanna show you what he said in Psalm 88, and I'll give you a little spoiler alert. This is one of only two Psalms in all the Psalms that don't have a positive ending. A lot of times, people whine and cry and complain. And then they say, but the Lord is faithful. And this man of God says this. And I wonder how many of you might be able to relate. He says, "I am overwhelmed with troubles and my life draws near to death. I'm counted among those who've gone down to the pit. I'm like one without any strength left. I'm set apart with the dead like the slain who lie in the grave, whom you remember no more. God, You've forgotten me. I feel like I'm cut off from Your care." And then we're gonna see something that he gets right. And what I wanna tell you is what he gets right, is the very same thing that you get right. Because in the middle of his darkness, in the middle of his despair, he continues to turn from God just like you might be doing today. The very thought that you may be hurting and feel desperate and you've shown up for church, or you've watched online, tells you that somewhere buried in there in the middle of the darkness, you're still turning toward the light. And he did the very same thing right that you're doing at this moment. He says, "But I cry to you for help, Lord. In the morning, my prayer comes before you." You're the first place I turn. And even though he's crying out to God, he's not finding the peace that he wants. And he says, "Why, Lord, do you reject me and hide your face from me?" And the last verse of Psalm 88 is haunting. He says, "You've taken from me my friend and neighbor, darkness is my closest friend." Darkness is my closest friend. This guy loved God. He's a man of God. And this is in the Bible. This is in the Psalms. And I love that it's there with no positive ending because it shows that God is not afraid of our honesty, that he cares that you may love him and you may question him, and you may worship him and you may hurt. And when you hurt, he cares. Darkness is my closest friend. And that's about where I was when I was breaking down. Still preaching, still showing up, and panicking. Fine on the outside, dying on the inside. So I got over my pride and I called a counselor. You're like, you're a pastor, and you call a counselor? Yes. And I just wanna remind you that getting help isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of wisdom. I wanna say it again. I want you to hear it. Getting help, it's not like you're weak, you're dumb, you're bad. It's wise. And so, I started meeting with my counselor and I said, "I'm in bad shape. Like I'm in really bad shape. I'm in bad shape." And so, he put me through a very expensive, ongoing battery of different tests. And he came back and he said, "I got good news for you." I said, Good, I need something." He says, "You're not in bad shape." I'm like going, "You're the wrong guy. I'm in bad shape." He goes, "No, no, no." And he said, "You're not." He said, "Physically, you're in as good a shape as I've seen in a man your age." Like he had to throw that in there. Like, why not just say you're in good shape? You know, man your age. He said, he says, "Spiritually, you're like seeking God and you're in God’s Word and you're praying and you have faith and you're not sinning in any gross and 4 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript ongoing ways." He said, "Your marriage is like something that everybody would aspire to have." He said, "You're visibly healthy. You're spiritually healthy. You're relationally healthy." And he said, "You're just mentally exhausted. You're just mentally exhausted." And so we started going through some exercises and we did all this kind of basic insulting stuff. Like Pastor Craig, what is the greatest command? Like, huh? Here we go. What is it? Well, Jesus said this. He said, "Love the Lord, your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your," what? With all your- - Mind. - With all your mind. And he said, "Are you loving God with all your heart?" I said, "Yes." Are you loving God with all your soul? Yes. He goes, "Are you loving God with all your mind?" Interesting. How do you love God with your mind? And so, he reviewed some stuff that I taught in the series Winning the War in Your Mind. That your life is always moving in the direction of your strongest thoughts. And we started to talk about the brain and what I wanna do is I wanna... Let's just talk about the brain. That's pretty cool. Let's talk about the brain for a moment. The brain is actually built over time and it starts at birth and then it starts to evolve. And what happens is the brain, it makes all of these connections, connections, connections, connections. Simple connections that are called neural pathways. And for the first few years of your life, how many neural pathways is your brain making? About one million or so connections every second. Every second, your brain's making a connection, a connection, a connection. And then after a while, the brain starts to learn and the connections are simplified through a process called pruning. What happens? Your brain gets more efficient and it starts to think in patterns. In other words, once you think a thought, it's easier to think that thought again. It's like a mental rut or a pathway that's easier to continue to think those thoughts. And that's good news if your thoughts are healthy. That's bad news when your thoughts aren't. So if your body's not healthy, what do you do? You go to a doctor. You might change your diet. You might exercise. You might get treatment for where your body is unhealthy. So if your mind is unhealthy, what do you do? You might go to a doctor like I did. You might go to the great physician who helps to renew your mind. And my mind just couldn't shut down. So my counselor gave me assignment, come up with 30 things you've never done before. I came up with six. Like I couldn't think to seven. Like I got stupid. That's too many. He said, "I want you to try, start trying them up." So I tried two and I started two new hobbies, which seemed like really odd counseling for as much money as I was paying an hour. But what I didn't realize is he was trying to disconnect my mind so it could reconnect to God. I did disconnect at first. My mom was stuck in this church, church, church, church, church. And that sounded like all spiritual. That's church, that's not God. There's a difference. It's church. He's like work, work, work, work, work, work, work. I had to disconnect my mind and then connect it to God. And there's one verse I wanna share you that can start to help you disconnect your mind from the wrong thing and connect it to the right thing. If you want peace of mind, here's the foundation. We'll start here today. Isaiah 26:3. Scripture says this, watch this. You'll be kept in perfect peace all who trust in you, all who's what? Watch this. All whose thoughts God are fixed on you. I love this. You'll be kept in perfect peace. Perfect peace. Perfect peace. Not just occasional peace when everything's going the way you want it. Not just momentary peace when you feel good in the moment. Not just circumstantial peace. But you'll be kept in perfect peace. What is perfect peace? I love in the Hebrew language, perfect peace is actually a translation from Shalom. Two times, Shalom is peace. But the author doesn't say Shalom, but he says Shalom, Shalom. Any time you see a word repeated in the Hebrew, it's for incredible emphasis. It's like Shalom 5 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript exponential. It's like what you do if your kids are acting up, you repeat it. Like you're driving along. Don't make me come back. Don't make me come back there. And then once you get wisdom, you don't even speak, you just swat. How many know what I'm talking about? So you repeat something for in... And the author says you will experience Shalom, Shalom. Who will experience it? Those whose thoughts are fixed on CNN News! Oh, wrong party. On Fox News! And those who are just sitting there scrolling through social media all day long. Are those whose minds are fixed on church for the word? No, no, no, no. You'll keep in perfect peace all whose thoughts are fixed on you. That the Hebrew word translated fixed as the word samak. And this word, it actually means to prop. It means to rest your full weight on an object. It is to rest your full weight. If you're like so many people right now, and you're just not doing great, there's tension, there's heaviness. You're worried about kind of stuff. You don't know where to turn. You don't like your job. You're not really liking people around you. You're just not okay. One of the things we need to do is disconnect our minds from what is unhelpful. And we don't just fix our thoughts on what's helpful, we fix our thoughts on God, on God, on God, on God. And we start to create new neural pathways, that's science. Scripture says we renew our mind, do not be conformed to what everybody else is doing. The craziness, the toxicity, the hatefulness, the bitterness, the negativity. Do not be conformed to the patterns of this world, but be transformed, how, by the renewing of your mind. And so, I disconnected my mind and I started to connect it to one spiritual truth, and this was mine. The verse, 2 Peter 1:3. This was my verse that talks about God's power. It's His divine power. It's God's power. It's not my power. It's His power. It's not my power. It's His power has given us everything, not just part of it, but everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of Him. It's His power. And again and again, I fixed my mind on His word. And again and again. And so, instead of saying like, I can't, and this is too much, and this is gonna kill me, and I'm never gonna get it all done, and nobody understands, and nobody cares. Instead what I said is that God is my source and my strength. I have everything I need to do everything He called me to do. God is my source. God is my strength. It's Him. It's His power. It's not mine. It's God, it's God, it's God's. According to scripture, He's given me everything, everything I need, the people I need, the resources I need, the friends I need, the counselor I need, the strength I need. His word, the energy, the power, the mental health. He's given me everything I need over and over and over and over and over again. And you'll be kept in perfect peace those who thoughts are fixed on you. And so, I started changing my thought patterns and I was healed instantly. I wish. It wasn't instant. It was like, I would say, Amy might say about an 18-month journey. And about 18 months ago, she said, "I think you're doing good." And I said, "Can we say that? Have I been good long enough?" I said, "I think I'm doing good too." And then I didn't really go public with it with many people because they're close to me 'cause I wanna see it for three months. I wanna see it for six months. About 18 months on the other side of it saying like by the grace of God, He's given me... He's given me everything I need to do everything He's called me to do. It's a peace. It's a peace. It's a peace. And so, I was meeting with 100 or so of our staff members. These were the campus pastors, 42 of them in the top leaders from Central. So these were the people that oversee the church. And we had a long working session and we prayed for you at the end. We prayed for you, our church family. And at the end of the prayer, it's funny I'm telling you, 'cause I like didn't even want them to know. But at the end of the prayer, I couldn't physically stand because of the emotion was so great. The burden that I feel as your pastor, we're praying, their eyes are closed and I just crumbled. And I thought, I can't let 'em see this. I couldn't stand, I was just shaking. So I put the mic down and tried to walk around the room. I didn't want them to know, and now I'm telling all of you. What I want you to know is that it's like... God, I think I'm not happy 6 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript about this. I think he allowed me to experience something so I could relate to what's going on and dive into His word and come out with truth that might just change some lives. - [Man] Say that. - Our spiritual enemy is attacking everywhere. Christians are pointing the fingers at each other, like the wrong, not believing the best motives, criticizing on, on, on, on, on. And people just aren't doing well right now. And you can be kept in perfect peace if your thoughts are fixed on Him. Here's what we're gonna talk about. Next week, we're gonna talk about anxiety. The week after that, we're gonna talk about depression. The week after that, we're gonna talk about worry. The week after that, if I haven't got you yet, I'm coming for you. We're talking about chronic negativity. Seeing the world through a negative lens. We're gonna talk about trauma and deep pain and deep healing. And then we're gonna talk about mine, which is burnout, and where do we go? And we're gonna live out the promises of Jesus. When He said this, He said, "Peace, I leave with you." And watch this, He said, "My peace. My peace I give to you. I do not give as the world gives." I love this. He said, "My peace." Not a piece, but my peace. And when did Jesus say He gives His peace? It's interesting. In John 14, He said He gives His peace the night before His suffering, the night before He faced the worst physical agony possible to show us perhaps that real peace, perfect peace, isn't found in the absence of problems. But real peace is found in the presence of God. It's Shalom, Shalom. It's peace even when you hear bad news. It's peace even when you lose your job. It's peace when your marriage is struggling. It's peace when your kids are making decisions that are wrecking you in your heart. It's peace when you're hurt by those that you love the most. It's peace when money is tight. It's Shalom, Shalom. It is a peace from God. The world can't give it and the world can't take it away. And God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. May the God of peace sanctify your soul through and through. He cares. He is here. He's faithful. He will do it. So, Father, we pray by the power of Your spirit, that You would do a healing work. As you're reflecting wherever you're watching today, those of you who would say, I wanna learn to love God with my mind. I need some help in my mind. Would you lift your hands right now? Lift em up, lift em up. Let's just go there. Let's just go there. God, thank You for honesty today. Thank You for Your presence. Help us, God, to fix our thoughts on You. Train our brains to be renewed with Your truth. God bring healing to those who are hurting, either instantly in the moment or in a journey as You guide us. You are the source of all that we need, and we look to You. As you keep praying today, some of you, spiritually, you don't know where you stand right now. And we're seeing so many people baptized. There are many that felt guilty and ashamed of things they've done. And they found a peace that goes beyond anything this world knows. His name is Jesus. He is the Son of God. He was perfect. He shed His blood that we could live. He died in our place. And when you call on Him, He hears your prayers. He forgives your sins and you become brand new today. Wherever you're watching from, those of you, you feel a heaviness. You feel a weight. You may feel ashamed. Step away from your sin. Call on Jesus when you do. He forgives all of your sins. He makes you brand new. The weight is gone. There is a peace from heaven. It is not a peace of this world. It's a peace this world cannot take away. Wherever you're watching from those today to say, I need that. I need His grace. I need His forgiveness. We're stepping away from the old life. We're stepping towards Jesus. We're giving Him all. He hears your prayers. He makes you new. That's your prayer, Jesus, I need You. Would you lift your hands higher? Right now all over the place. Lift them up and to say, yes, that's my prayer. All of you guys right here and up in there. 7 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript Praise God for you. Right back over there, my gosh. Others today saying, yes, Jesus. Oh, I surrender to you. Online, you can just type that in the chat. I'm giving my life to Jesus. Just type that in the chat and we're gonna pray together and then we're gonna worship together. Just pray aloud. Heavenly Father, forgive my sins. Jesus saved me. Forgive me. Make me new. Fill me with Your spirit so I can walk with You and I can know You and I can show Your love. Change my life and use me to change others. Thank You for new life. I give You all of mine. In Jesus' name, I pray. Would you praise God right now? Welcome those born into His family. Worship God. 8 PeaceofMind_1_Transcript
- I'll be real, real honest with you and tell you that I never expected to be one that would
break down. I always thought it was other people. I've had years of mostly consistent
ministry. My highs aren't real high. My lows aren't real low. I just, year after year, decade
after decade, have been blessed by God to just be consistent. I never thought that I
would be one to break down. Others, maybe, but not me. And on the outside, most
people didn't even know 'cause I still showed up and did what I know how to do. And I
preached and I looked healthy and am healthy And my marriage with Amy has been
good and was good, and on the outside, everything looked exactly the same. But on the
inside, it was nothing but sheer panic. And I didn't see it coming. All I know is that it was
a little by little, year over year, there was a little more and then a little more and then a
little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a little more and then a
little more and then a little more, and then I thought, "Maybe it's too much." And then
there was a little more and then I thought, "I can't continue like this." And there was a
little more and then I thought, "This is going to get me." And then there was a little
more and then I thought, "This will probably kill me." Like it's gonna kill me. So is that
too real? Do we have to play like church halo thing and I get I'm super pastor and I don't
have real problems? - Come on. - Can we go there? I thought it was gonna kill me. And so, here I am almost three
decades into ministry and I need help and I was embarrassed. Like I'm the pastor, you
know, not just a Christian, but I'm the pastor. And sadly, there are some of you that can
relate right now. There's a lot of people that can relate. Where outwardly, you're still
showing up and you're still smiling and you're still trying to do your job. But inwardly,
you're battling real depression. Or ongoing kind of chronic anxiety. Or you just feel just
stressed. There's just too much. Like you just can't handle it all. Like you might just snap.
You might just burn out. If you find yourself struggling mentally, you're not alone, and
we're gonna talk about it. Over the next several weeks, we're gonna talk about mental
health in a message series that I'm calling Peace of Mind. And the title for our first and
foundational message, and it will be very foundational, you're gonna say, "Where's the
rest of it?" The rest of it's coming. It's very foundational. But the title to build a
foundation today is The Most Dangerous Myths of Mental Health. And what I wanna do
is I wanna pray and open-eyed prayer, so you don't have to close your eyes. Jesus did
say watch Him pray. And so, if you're driving and praying, you want to watch Him pray.
And so, this is our open-eyed prayer. And this is my prayer for you. May God Himself,
may our Heavenly Father, the one who loves you, who is called according to 1
Thessalonians 5:23. The God of peace. May the God of peace sanctify you, cleanse you,
change you, through and through, through and through. May your whole spirit, soul, and
body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is
faithful, and scripture promises and He will do it. May the God of peace bring healing.
Would you look at the person sitting next to you and just tell them right now, tell 'em
God is my peace. Tell 'em God is my peace. Look at your second choice. The other one
say, He's your peace too. Go ahead and tell 'em that right now. He's your peace too. You
can type that in the chat if you're watching today. God is my peace. God is my peace.
It's interesting. I'm glad things are improving in the church world. For years, people said
that the church shouldn't talk about mental health. It was kind of something like it was
somebody else's problem and it's not something we're gonna talk about in the church.
And sometimes the implication would be that you shouldn't struggle mentally because
if you're someone that comes to Jesus, then Jesus fixes everything. The moment you
come to Jesus, you know, He's gonna... I'll try to do my country preacher voice. I only
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have one. I always go, but He's gonna save ya! You know? He's gonna redeem your soul!
He's gonna fill you with Holy Ghost power and He's gonna work... And maybe that's my
voice, I don't even know. But He's gonna... He's gonna work in... He's gonna work in all
things to bring about good to those who love Him and are called according to His
purpose. And everything that I told you is true. He saves you. He forgives you. He
redeems you. He fills you with His power. He'll never leave you. And everything does
work together for good. All that's true, but it's incomplete. And what I'm about to say is
gonna freak some people out and you can go join the blogs that say he's a heretic, you
know, whatever. And this may freak you out, but it's true. Just because Jesus saves you,
doesn't mean He fixes every air of your life instantly. Just because your sins are
forgiven. I've never heard anyone say like, you know, I was reading the Bible and I called
on Jesus and He saved me. And all of a sudden, I had abs. I've never, like... You know,
praise the Lord. Here's my spiritual six-pack. I've never seen that happen before. You
know, I came to the altar, I was crying, I gave my life to Jesus and my credit score
improved. My hair got thicker. My thighs got thinner. #Blessed. I've never heard that. In
other words, just because you come to Jesus, it doesn't mean that your boss is now nice
to you or your bank account just instantly went up. Or when you came to Jesus, it
doesn't mean that you instantly became mentally healthy. When we talk about mental
health, you maybe say, what are we talking about? And I wanna try to kind of unpack
this a little bit, because first of all, I wanna just acknowledge that I am a pastor. I'm not a
Christian psychologist, not a doctor. And so, I'm not an expert, but I have read over a
dozen books and have consulted in detail with two Christian counselors who are helping
guide me through kind of a biblical narrative to present this in a way that would be
helpful. But I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm not an expert at all. And so, I'm gonna
focus more on the spiritual. But what I wanna do is acknowledge what mental health
actually is. And mental health would include at least three things: your emotional, your
psychological, and your social wellbeing. It's very, very important because our mental
health, it's not actually static. Meaning you can be really healthy for a little while and
then something happens or you have a change in your body, or you go through trauma,
and you may be really healthy one moment and then you may be in a very bad place
afterwards. And your mental health, it actually impacts how you think, which then
impacts how you feel and then impacts how you act. Your mental health determines
how you handle stress around you or how you relate to people or how you make
choices or how you bounce back from a difficult situation or how you don't bounce
back. Your mental health might determine how you cope if you go to the wrong sources
for comfort, or if you make the right choices. It might determine even how you choose
your friends or the quality or the not so quality of your marriage. And there are so many
misunderstandings when it comes to mental health. I wanted to build a foundation
today, and then we're gonna build on top of it. And I'm gonna show you the two mental
health myths that I've noticed most in the church today. The first one, if you're taking
notes, is this, a lot of Christians believe that Christians shouldn't struggle with mental
health. That if you're a Christian, because you're filled with the Holy Spirit, because
you've been saved, you shouldn't battle with anxiety or you really shouldn't be
depressed or you shouldn't be burned out. And if you do struggle with one of these
things, then it's probably your fault. In other words, you don't have enough faith or
you're not praying enough. Or if you are praying a lot, you're not praying right. Or
there's some kind of a sin in your life that you need to confess and get out of your life.
And if you get that sin out of your life, then you're not gonna be anxious or you're not
gonna be overwhelmed or you're not gonna be burned out or you're not gonna be
struggling. What I wanna do is show you that you can love Jesus and still fight
depression. You can be in the word. You can have the longest Bible streak in the
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YouVersion Bible app of anybody in your life group and still battle with anxiety. You can
attend church faithfully and sit on the front row and lift your hands for worship and tithe
and serve in the two-year-old room. And still struggle to overcome trauma partially
because it's traumatic to serve in the two-year-old room. When you look in scripture,
some of the people that we preach about as heroes, the ones we look up to, the ones
that are the heroes and the fathers and the mothers of the faith. With all their faith, they
still had bouts with mental challenges. There was Elijah. I mean, think about this guy.
This guy, he's cocky, man. I mean, he stands down 800 false prophets of Baal and he
calls down fire from heaven one day. And shortly after, he's all alone, depressed, and he
wants to die. David, a man after God's own heart who stands down the giant says, "Who
are you to come against the armies of the living God?" And he battles with deep
despair, wondering if God has abandoned him. Jeremiah. I don't wanna be Jeremiah
'cause he's called the weeping prophet. I wanna be the bold prophet, the confident,
strong prophet and the prophet of God who declared God's truth. Battled with
loneliness, insecurity, and he cursed the day that he was born. And so, if you find
yourself like so many people today, you're struggling in your mental health and you
don't know what to do. The message sometimes in the church is you just need more of
God. You just need more of God. You just need more of God. You just need more of
God. And I came to tell you that you do need more of God and you might need more
sleep. Is that unspiritual? God designed us to... You might need better friends. You're
not in a life group. And you wonder why you feel alone and disconnected and don't
have people standing by you and praying for you. How in the world do you think you're
gonna stand strong against the forces of darkness when you don't have friends of life
standing nearby? We wanna take a holistic approach, and I don't necessarily mean like
holistic medicine. I'm talking about our whole body's connected. Like you might need a
better diet. You might need to go to a doctor and you might be having some hormonal
changes. You might need to do some deep therapy or whatever the case would be. If
you're struggling, and so many people are, I don't know if I can make it. I feel anxious. I
feel depressed and I don't know why. And I'm praying and I'm trying and I'm going to
church and I'm seeking God and I'm trying to do better, and I still just can't seem to
make it. If you're struggling, it doesn't mean you're not a good Christian. It means you're
human. It means you're human. And there's a myth. And it's a lot of time, you'll see it
around the church that as Christians, shouldn't struggle with mental health. And there's
another myth if you're taking notes and that is a lot of people say, well, God doesn't
care about your mental health. He doesn't really care about that. He's too busy. He's got
bigger problems. Have you seen what's going on in the world today? You think God has
the time to deal with you trying to handle your freaky in-laws or whatever? He ain't
have time for that. But when you look at scripture, especially the Psalms. Does anybody
love the Psalms? Anybody love the Psalms? When you look at the Psalms, you're gonna
see just how much God cares about every area of your life. I love the Psalm. I'll share
just a few of them with you. Just to quote them. The Lord is my light and my salvation,
whom shall I fear? The Lord is close to the broken-hearted. He saves those who are
crushed in spirit. God is our refuge and our strength. He's our ever present help in a time
of trouble. The Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green
pastures. He restores my soul. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of
death, I will fear no evil for thou art with me, your rod and your staff. They comfort me.
You will prepare for me a table in the presence of my enemies, and your mercy and
goodness will follow me all the days. The Lord cares about you. He cares about you. Go
to the Psalms to see how much He cares about you and go to the Psalms to see some
people breaking down mentally. There's a lot of Psalms you want on your coffee mug,
and I'm gonna show you one you don't. I'm gonna show you one you don't. Psalm 88
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was written by a guy named Heman. Now, for those of you that might be about my age,
when I was a kid, there was a cartoon character named He-Man who had a girlfriend
named She-Ra, and they were both very muscular and immodest. And that was He-Man.
This is a different Heman. I'm just saying, I don't know. I don't even know why I thought
of that, but our Heman, okay. In the Bible, Heman is the guy that you wanted in your life.
He was well respected. He was the one that everybody looked up to. And I wanna show
you just some of the qualities we know about Heman from scripture. He had great
wisdom. Very, very wise wisdom from the Lord. He was a talented musician. He was one
of the worshipers and had incredible musical ability. He had a lot of kids and the
implication is that he was a committed parent, very committed in his parenting. And he
was very, very faithful in his service to the king. This was a man of God. This would've
been the deacon at the church. This would've been the guy at work that you go to for
advice. This is the guy you want for your father-in-law or your dad. This is a man of God.
And I wanna show you what he said in Psalm 88, and I'll give you a little spoiler alert.
This is one of only two Psalms in all the Psalms that don't have a positive ending. A lot
of times, people whine and cry and complain. And then they say, but the Lord is faithful.
And this man of God says this. And I wonder how many of you might be able to relate.
He says, "I am overwhelmed with troubles and my life draws near to death. I'm counted
among those who've gone down to the pit. I'm like one without any strength left. I'm set
apart with the dead like the slain who lie in the grave, whom you remember no more.
God, You've forgotten me. I feel like I'm cut off from Your care." And then we're gonna
see something that he gets right. And what I wanna tell you is what he gets right, is the
very same thing that you get right. Because in the middle of his darkness, in the middle
of his despair, he continues to turn from God just like you might be doing today. The
very thought that you may be hurting and feel desperate and you've shown up for
church, or you've watched online, tells you that somewhere buried in there in the middle
of the darkness, you're still turning toward the light. And he did the very same thing
right that you're doing at this moment. He says, "But I cry to you for help, Lord. In the
morning, my prayer comes before you." You're the first place I turn. And even though
he's crying out to God, he's not finding the peace that he wants. And he says, "Why,
Lord, do you reject me and hide your face from me?" And the last verse of Psalm 88 is
haunting. He says, "You've taken from me my friend and neighbor, darkness is my
closest friend." Darkness is my closest friend. This guy loved God. He's a man of God.
And this is in the Bible. This is in the Psalms. And I love that it's there with no positive
ending because it shows that God is not afraid of our honesty, that he cares that you
may love him and you may question him, and you may worship him and you may hurt.
And when you hurt, he cares. Darkness is my closest friend. And that's about where I
was when I was breaking down. Still preaching, still showing up, and panicking. Fine on
the outside, dying on the inside. So I got over my pride and I called a counselor. You're
like, you're a pastor, and you call a counselor? Yes. And I just wanna remind you that
getting help isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of wisdom. I wanna say it again. I want
you to hear it. Getting help, it's not like you're weak, you're dumb, you're bad. It's wise.
And so, I started meeting with my counselor and I said, "I'm in bad shape. Like I'm in
really bad shape. I'm in bad shape." And so, he put me through a very expensive,
ongoing battery of different tests. And he came back and he said, "I got good news for
you." I said, Good, I need something." He says, "You're not in bad shape." I'm like going,
"You're the wrong guy. I'm in bad shape." He goes, "No, no, no." And he said, "You're
not." He said, "Physically, you're in as good a shape as I've seen in a man your age." Like
he had to throw that in there. Like, why not just say you're in good shape? You know,
man your age. He said, he says, "Spiritually, you're like seeking God and you're in God’s
Word and you're praying and you have faith and you're not sinning in any gross and
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ongoing ways." He said, "Your marriage is like something that everybody would aspire
to have." He said, "You're visibly healthy. You're spiritually healthy. You're relationally
healthy." And he said, "You're just mentally exhausted. You're just mentally exhausted."
And so we started going through some exercises and we did all this kind of basic
insulting stuff. Like Pastor Craig, what is the greatest command? Like, huh? Here we go.
What is it? Well, Jesus said this. He said, "Love the Lord, your God with all your heart
and with all your soul and with all your," what? With all your- - Mind. - With all your mind. And he said, "Are you loving God with all your heart?" I said, "Yes."
Are you loving God with all your soul? Yes. He goes, "Are you loving God with all your
mind?" Interesting. How do you love God with your mind? And so, he reviewed some
stuff that I taught in the series Winning the War in Your Mind. That your life is always
moving in the direction of your strongest thoughts. And we started to talk about the
brain and what I wanna do is I wanna... Let's just talk about the brain. That's pretty cool.
Let's talk about the brain for a moment. The brain is actually built over time and it starts
at birth and then it starts to evolve. And what happens is the brain, it makes all of these
connections, connections, connections, connections. Simple connections that are called
neural pathways. And for the first few years of your life, how many neural pathways is
your brain making? About one million or so connections every second. Every second,
your brain's making a connection, a connection, a connection. And then after a while,
the brain starts to learn and the connections are simplified through a process called
pruning. What happens? Your brain gets more efficient and it starts to think in patterns.
In other words, once you think a thought, it's easier to think that thought again. It's like
a mental rut or a pathway that's easier to continue to think those thoughts. And that's
good news if your thoughts are healthy. That's bad news when your thoughts aren't. So
if your body's not healthy, what do you do? You go to a doctor. You might change your
diet. You might exercise. You might get treatment for where your body is unhealthy. So
if your mind is unhealthy, what do you do? You might go to a doctor like I did. You
might go to the great physician who helps to renew your mind. And my mind just
couldn't shut down. So my counselor gave me assignment, come up with 30 things
you've never done before. I came up with six. Like I couldn't think to seven. Like I got
stupid. That's too many. He said, "I want you to try, start trying them up." So I tried two
and I started two new hobbies, which seemed like really odd counseling for as much
money as I was paying an hour. But what I didn't realize is he was trying to disconnect
my mind so it could reconnect to God. I did disconnect at first. My mom was stuck in
this church, church, church, church, church. And that sounded like all spiritual. That's
church, that's not God. There's a difference. It's church. He's like work, work, work, work,
work, work, work. I had to disconnect my mind and then connect it to God. And there's
one verse I wanna share you that can start to help you disconnect your mind from the
wrong thing and connect it to the right thing. If you want peace of mind, here's the
foundation. We'll start here today. Isaiah 26:3. Scripture says this, watch this. You'll be
kept in perfect peace all who trust in you, all who's what? Watch this. All whose
thoughts God are fixed on you. I love this. You'll be kept in perfect peace. Perfect peace.
Perfect peace. Not just occasional peace when everything's going the way you want it.
Not just momentary peace when you feel good in the moment. Not just circumstantial
peace. But you'll be kept in perfect peace. What is perfect peace? I love in the Hebrew
language, perfect peace is actually a translation from Shalom. Two times, Shalom is
peace. But the author doesn't say Shalom, but he says Shalom, Shalom. Any time you
see a word repeated in the Hebrew, it's for incredible emphasis. It's like Shalom
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exponential. It's like what you do if your kids are acting up, you repeat it. Like you're
driving along. Don't make me come back. Don't make me come back there. And then
once you get wisdom, you don't even speak, you just swat. How many know what I'm
talking about? So you repeat something for in... And the author says you will experience
Shalom, Shalom. Who will experience it? Those whose thoughts are fixed on CNN News!
Oh, wrong party. On Fox News! And those who are just sitting there scrolling through
social media all day long. Are those whose minds are fixed on church for the word? No,
no, no, no. You'll keep in perfect peace all whose thoughts are fixed on you. That the
Hebrew word translated fixed as the word samak. And this word, it actually means to
prop. It means to rest your full weight on an object. It is to rest your full weight. If you're
like so many people right now, and you're just not doing great, there's tension, there's
heaviness. You're worried about kind of stuff. You don't know where to turn. You don't
like your job. You're not really liking people around you. You're just not okay. One of the
things we need to do is disconnect our minds from what is unhelpful. And we don't just
fix our thoughts on what's helpful, we fix our thoughts on God, on God, on God, on God.
And we start to create new neural pathways, that's science. Scripture says we renew
our mind, do not be conformed to what everybody else is doing. The craziness, the
toxicity, the hatefulness, the bitterness, the negativity. Do not be conformed to the
patterns of this world, but be transformed, how, by the renewing of your mind. And so, I
disconnected my mind and I started to connect it to one spiritual truth, and this was
mine. The verse, 2 Peter 1:3. This was my verse that talks about God's power. It's His
divine power. It's God's power. It's not my power. It's His power. It's not my power. It's
His power has given us everything, not just part of it, but everything we need for a
godly life through our knowledge of Him. It's His power. And again and again, I fixed my
mind on His word. And again and again. And so, instead of saying like, I can't, and this is
too much, and this is gonna kill me, and I'm never gonna get it all done, and nobody
understands, and nobody cares. Instead what I said is that God is my source and my
strength. I have everything I need to do everything He called me to do. God is my
source. God is my strength. It's Him. It's His power. It's not mine. It's God, it's God, it's
God's. According to scripture, He's given me everything, everything I need, the people I
need, the resources I need, the friends I need, the counselor I need, the strength I need.
His word, the energy, the power, the mental health. He's given me everything I need
over and over and over and over and over again. And you'll be kept in perfect peace
those who thoughts are fixed on you. And so, I started changing my thought patterns
and I was healed instantly. I wish. It wasn't instant. It was like, I would say, Amy might
say about an 18-month journey. And about 18 months ago, she said, "I think you're doing
good." And I said, "Can we say that? Have I been good long enough?" I said, "I think I'm
doing good too." And then I didn't really go public with it with many people because
they're close to me 'cause I wanna see it for three months. I wanna see it for six months.
About 18 months on the other side of it saying like by the grace of God, He's given me...
He's given me everything I need to do everything He's called me to do. It's a peace. It's
a peace. It's a peace. And so, I was meeting with 100 or so of our staff members. These
were the campus pastors, 42 of them in the top leaders from Central. So these were the
people that oversee the church. And we had a long working session and we prayed for
you at the end. We prayed for you, our church family. And at the end of the prayer, it's
funny I'm telling you, 'cause I like didn't even want them to know. But at the end of the
prayer, I couldn't physically stand because of the emotion was so great. The burden that
I feel as your pastor, we're praying, their eyes are closed and I just crumbled. And I
thought, I can't let 'em see this. I couldn't stand, I was just shaking. So I put the mic
down and tried to walk around the room. I didn't want them to know, and now I'm
telling all of you. What I want you to know is that it's like... God, I think I'm not happy
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about this. I think he allowed me to experience something so I could relate to what's
going on and dive into His word and come out with truth that might just change some
lives. - [Man] Say that. - Our spiritual enemy is attacking everywhere. Christians are pointing the fingers at each
other, like the wrong, not believing the best motives, criticizing on, on, on, on, on. And
people just aren't doing well right now. And you can be kept in perfect peace if your
thoughts are fixed on Him. Here's what we're gonna talk about. Next week, we're gonna
talk about anxiety. The week after that, we're gonna talk about depression. The week
after that, we're gonna talk about worry. The week after that, if I haven't got you yet, I'm
coming for you. We're talking about chronic negativity. Seeing the world through a
negative lens. We're gonna talk about trauma and deep pain and deep healing. And
then we're gonna talk about mine, which is burnout, and where do we go? And we're
gonna live out the promises of Jesus. When He said this, He said, "Peace, I leave with
you." And watch this, He said, "My peace. My peace I give to you. I do not give as the
world gives." I love this. He said, "My peace." Not a piece, but my peace. And when did
Jesus say He gives His peace? It's interesting. In John 14, He said He gives His peace the
night before His suffering, the night before He faced the worst physical agony possible
to show us perhaps that real peace, perfect peace, isn't found in the absence of
problems. But real peace is found in the presence of God. It's Shalom, Shalom. It's peace
even when you hear bad news. It's peace even when you lose your job. It's peace when
your marriage is struggling. It's peace when your kids are making decisions that are
wrecking you in your heart. It's peace when you're hurt by those that you love the most.
It's peace when money is tight. It's Shalom, Shalom. It is a peace from God. The world
can't give it and the world can't take it away. And God has not given us a spirit of fear,
but of power, love, and a sound mind. May the God of peace sanctify your soul through
and through. He cares. He is here. He's faithful. He will do it. So, Father, we pray by the
power of Your spirit, that You would do a healing work. As you're reflecting wherever
you're watching today, those of you who would say, I wanna learn to love God with my
mind. I need some help in my mind. Would you lift your hands right now? Lift em up, lift
em up. Let's just go there. Let's just go there. God, thank You for honesty today. Thank
You for Your presence. Help us, God, to fix our thoughts on You. Train our brains to be
renewed with Your truth. God bring healing to those who are hurting, either instantly in
the moment or in a journey as You guide us. You are the source of all that we need, and
we look to You. As you keep praying today, some of you, spiritually, you don't know
where you stand right now. And we're seeing so many people baptized. There are many
that felt guilty and ashamed of things they've done. And they found a peace that goes
beyond anything this world knows. His name is Jesus. He is the Son of God. He was
perfect. He shed His blood that we could live. He died in our place. And when you call
on Him, He hears your prayers. He forgives your sins and you become brand new today.
Wherever you're watching from, those of you, you feel a heaviness. You feel a weight.
You may feel ashamed. Step away from your sin. Call on Jesus when you do. He forgives
all of your sins. He makes you brand new. The weight is gone. There is a peace from
heaven. It is not a peace of this world. It's a peace this world cannot take away.
Wherever you're watching from those today to say, I need that. I need His grace. I need
His forgiveness. We're stepping away from the old life. We're stepping towards Jesus.
We're giving Him all. He hears your prayers. He makes you new. That's your prayer,
Jesus, I need You. Would you lift your hands higher? Right now all over the place. Lift
them up and to say, yes, that's my prayer. All of you guys right here and up in there.
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Praise God for you. Right back over there, my gosh. Others today saying, yes, Jesus. Oh,
I surrender to you. Online, you can just type that in the chat. I'm giving my life to Jesus.
Just type that in the chat and we're gonna pray together and then we're gonna worship
together. Just pray aloud. Heavenly Father, forgive my sins. Jesus saved me. Forgive
me. Make me new. Fill me with Your spirit so I can walk with You and I can know You
and I can show Your love. Change my life and use me to change others. Thank You for
new life. I give You all of mine. In Jesus' name, I pray. Would you praise God right now?
Welcome those born into His family. Worship God.
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