Ever wake up with a pounding heart, racing brain, and knots in your stomach? I hate anxiety. My body and brain are just convinced that the world is falling apart, that I’m going to die early, that I’ll lose all my clients, that something will happen to a loved one, and on and on it goes... It’s way too easy to give in...to hide under the covers and cry. Or worse, to start really believing the lies my brain is yelling at me. The downward spiral is pulling me harder and harder. But there is a way to survive. Notice that I didn’t say that there’s a way to beat it, to win, to overcome. No, for me, it’s a matter of surviving the onslaught to fight another day. Here’s my “toolbox” for surviving anxiety: 1. I take daily meds. Thank God we live in a day and age where it’s possible to put a leash on the neurotransmitters that cascade through my brain and cause my body to hit “fight or flight” mode. Please, never be ashamed to work with a psychiatrist and therapist. It’s impossible to think your way through a brain chemistry issue...get help so you can fight anxiety on a level playing field. 2. “Cast your cares on the Lord” (1 Peter 5:7). Speak your fears and worries out loud. Tell God exactly what you’re thinking and feeling. He already knows...but simply acknowledging your anxiety verbally can help you figure out the difference between truth and lies. 3. “Put on your shoes of peace” (Ephesians 6:15). Ask God to take away the anxiety, to help you know what’s true, and to fill your heart with His peace. He’ll answer. And you’ll know you’re not carrying all of the stress alone. 4. “Be still. The Lord will fight for you” (Exodus 14:14). Do something relaxing. I love yoga, swimming, reading a great book, or just playing fetch with the doggies. You’re NOT wasting time. Taking a break will help your brain and body reset, bringing you back to a place where you can actually function and be productive. 5. “I will sing of your love, for you are my refuge in times of trouble” (Psalm 59:16). It’s no accident that God calls us to sing hundreds of times in Scripture. It’s literally the only activity where we use both sides of our brain equally! Talk about a reset. I don’t care if you just make a joyful noise. Singing will slow your heart rate, force you to breathe deeply, and quiet your racing thoughts. I use every tool, every time. I’m not claiming that my anxiety disappears. I fall back in constantly. But this is how I survive to fight another day.

Dear Roger, I have a question about what has been termed to be "earning my crown." My husband and I want to hear your explanation of what earning "jewels in the crown" means. My parents have told me that by doing good works on earth they are earning jewels in their crowns and they will receive a greater reward in heaven. It seems to us that when we go to some kind of a "system" to be rewarded in heaven, that’s defeating the purpose, and is almost Pharisaical. If we choose to do things saying we are doing that act to glorify God in order to get a reward...to me it smacks of religion, rather than relationship with the Lord. Can you enlighten us? –Kathi Dear Kathi, Should a Christian Work for Rewards? A resounding “yes!” Please look up and digest  2 Corinthians 3:10-15  where Paul describes Jesus’ process for determining how well or how poorly we spent our lives on earth. The more profitable our lives, the more rewards we earn, the greater will be the position that we will have in heaven. Some Christians will be disappointed. The Soul Winner’s Crown of Evangelism “For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes? Is it not you?”  ( 1 Thessalonians 2:19 ) A person’s greatest glory lies in those whom he/she has helped on the path to Christ. Jim Tosh was the first person I helped on the path to Christ. I was seven years old and very excited about my faith. He was in the fourth grade and I was in the second. We were on the playground at school when I told him about the little lost lamb that Jesus talked about that needed a Savior. I told Jim that he was a lost sheep who needed to be found. He became a Christian right then and there. We were baptized together three weeks later. Nine years after that he rounded a curve too fast and his “new” first car was totaled. His head hit the rear-view mirror and instantly he transitioned into Heaven’s glory. We were good friends, but I wished that he’d stayed around a little longer. I’m so glad that I talked to him about Jesus. By the way, many surveys taken over the years declare that 98% of all Christians have never experienced the joy of leading a single person to Christ. “Will there be any stars in my crown?” is an old hymn that has transcended generations. The melody has changed often. The idea is that we receive the soul-winners crown when we first lead somebody to Christ as Lord and Savior. Every time we lead another person to Christ, a star is attached to our crown! The Pastor’s Crown of Glory “And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away”  ( 1 Peter 5:4 ) Remember that Jesus called his disciples to be “fishers of men.” But don’t forget that when Jesus restored Peter to fellowship in  John 21 , he made it quite clear that while Peter was still to fish for fish; Peter was to shepherd Jesus’ lambs and sheep. We follow in the footsteps of Jesus. He was the chief Shepherd. We are shepherds, too. Any Christian who has led someone to know Christ, knows what a thrill it is to point to some person who has done well, and be able to say, “That was one of my boys/girls.” John wrote, “I have no greater joy to hear than that my children walk in truth”  ( 3 John 4 ). This crown is reserved for those who care for, mentor, and help mature Christ’s spiritual children and into spiritual mothers and fathers. You don’t have to be a pastor to earn this crown. Any  Bible  study leader or teacher is qualified to receive this crown. The Eternal Crown of Self-Discipline “Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever”  ( 1 Corinthians 9:25 ) The righteous live lives that are holy and pure. In every issue of life they want to do what is right. Paul insists that Christians who wanted to take the easy way would never get anywhere without the sternest of self-discipline. Paul was always fascinated by the picture of the athlete. An athlete must train with intensity to win his contest. Self-discipline is training to win a crown of laurel leaves that wither and die within days. How much more should the Christian be self-disciplined to win the crown that is eternal life! I recall driving one day and seeing a man playing golf. It just so happened that I passed that way again next week. Rain was pounding down in horizontal sheets. However, there he was, still playing golf in the raging rain. That is dedicated self-discipline. May God grant us the self-control to be much more dedicated to Christ than he was to golf. The Crown of Rejoicing: the Loving Anticipation of the Second Coming “Now there is in store for me the  crown  of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing"  ( 2 Timothy 4:8 ) I can hardly wait for the second coming of Jesus. My wife and I argue about just when that might occur. She says that Jesus will come before the seven years of tribulation on earth. I say that he will come right at the middle of the tribulation when Jesus opens the seven seals, the angels blow seven trumpets, and God pours out his seven bowls of wrath upon the earth. I finally decided to pray for the second coming her way. Jesus will come at the beginning of the seven-year tribulation so that we could hold hands heading up to heaven at the rapture. Remember, live as if Jesus were coming in the next 10 minutes. But plan as if He were not coming for another 100 years. Victor’s Crown of Righteousness “Similarly, anyone who competes as an athlete does not receive the victor’s  crown  except by competing according to the rules”  ( 2 Timothy 2:5 ) Paul says in  Ephesians 6:10-17  that not only will Jesus give us the victor’s crown because of our godly living on earth, he gives us the crown of righteousness to use as protection from the attacks of the devil. It is important to pray daily that every decision we make will be right. One of our church businessmen said to his employees, “If we get half of our decisions correct, we’ve done well.” I think that we all can do better than that. We have the Holy Spirit within to guide us. When our church property ran out of parking spaces, I decided the church should buy the surrounding houses for more space. Many of the neighbors worked hard to stymie our attempt. We ended up before the city zoning commission and made our appeal. Many angry homeowners fought us and won. I was so humiliated, but rightly so. One of the zoning commissioners said, “You’d think that a church could get along better with its neighbors, after all doesn’t the Bible say, “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s house?” That was one of the worst decisions that I ever made. The Martyr’s Crown “Do not be afraid of what you are about to suffer. I tell you, the devil will put some of you in prison to test you, and you will suffer persecution for ten days. Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you life as your victor’s crown"  ( Revelation 2:10 ) The band “DC Talk” published a contemporary collection of Christian martyrs and persecutions around the world. More Christians are being persecuted and martyred today than at any other time in world history. During the Chinese Cultural Revolution, one Christian observed an act of martyrdom that she later repeated. From her cell window, she saw two young Christian women kneeling before their pastor. He was told to shoot both girls or he himself would be shot. He hesitated. One of the girls said, “It’s okay pastor. We know you are in a rough position. We understand if you shoot. After all, we will be going to heaven! In a moment of great weakness their pastor pulled the trigger twice. Both girls slumped dead. But the ordeal was not finished. Once again the gun fired. The pastor was shot anyway. The Victor’s Crown of Perseverance “I am coming soon. Hold on to what you have, so that no one will take your crown”  ( Revelation 3:11 ) Remember, the real test is not how we start, but how we finish. “Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him ” ( James 1:12 ) “Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends!”  ( Philippians 4:1 ) Demas is mentioned three times in the New Testament: “Demas and Luke, my fellow workers”  ( Philemon 1:24 ). “Luke, the doctor, and Demas send greetings"  ( Colossians 4:14 ) “For Demas, because he loved this world, has deserted me and has gone to Thessalonica”  ( 2 Timothy 4:10 ) Notice the downward flow: he is working closely with Paul; then, he is mentioned with no appellation. Finally, he has deserted Paul. Three points on a graph describe his downward spiral away from Jesus! He started well, but ended poorly. We find it easy to love this present age. We make fine beginnings, but then some comfortable corner of this present age invites us, and our Christian profession lapses, and our faith grows formal, and we do not amount to much in the end as Christians. If I should accuse some of us of being Judas, we would be indignant. But Demas – how many of us have been that! Why did you do it, Demas? The answer: He loved this present age. Rome was so appealing. So many worthy activities he desired. Such power. Such opportunity. He couldn’t resist. However, of all the surprises in history, can we think of anything more surprising, with Nero on his throne and Paul in his prison, that the gospel for which Paul stood would outlast the Roman Empire? The person who has faith in God expects that to happen. So, even if it takes a lifetime, he carries on. So we name our dogs Nero and our children Paul. Staying power is commonly associated with profound resources of interior strength that replenish our faith. Whenever the living creatures give glory, honor, and thanks to him who sits on the throne they lay their crowns before the throne and say: “You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they were created and have their being”  ( Revelation 4:11 ) “Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name that the name of Jesus every knee should bow in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father”  ( Philippians 2:9-11 ). So why should we work to earn heavenly crowns? Because we will lay them at Jesus’ feet! Kathi, I hope this helps to answer your question. Love, Roger

Have you ever considered the significance of the appearing of Moses and Elijah on the Mount of Transfiguration and what it might mean for your life? It may be obvious to some that Moses represented the giving of the Law (Torah) and Elijah represented the giving of prophets to proclaim God’s word. But actually, the meaning of their appearances goes quite a bit deeper than that. Three times in scripture God speaks from a mountain. The first time was from Mount Sinai when God gave the Ten Commandments. “Mount Sinai was wrapped in smoke because the Lord had descended on it in fire. The smoke of it went up like the smoke of a kiln, and the whole mountain trembled greatly. And as the sound of the trumpet grew louder and louder, Moses spoke, and God answered him in thunder. The Lord came down on Mount Sinai, to the top of the mountain. And the Lord called Moses to the top of the mountain, and Moses went up…And God spoke all these words, saying…” (Exodus 19:18-20 and 20:1). Between the appearance on the mountain and God speaking as if through thunder, the people of God were terrified and asked that God not speak to them anymore. “You speak to us, and we will listen; but do not let God speak to us, lest we die” (Exodus 20:19). This is an interesting contrast to the second time that God spoke on a mountain. That mountain was Horeb (same mountain, different name), and Elijah the prophet waited for the Lord to speak to him while he was in a cave. Notice what scripture says about this. “And said, ‘Go out and stand on the mount before the Lord.’ And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore the mountains and broke in pieces the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. And after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. And after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire the sound of a low whisper. And when Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave” (I Kings 19:11-13). Did you notice the difference? For Moses there was thunder and an earthquake and smoke, enough to terrify the people. Yet when he spoke to Elijah, there were these things, but God did not speak through them, but rather, through a low whisper. Notice also that in Exodus God spoke and gave the Law. But with Elijah, God spoke and commanded Elijah to anoint two kings. “You shall anoint Hazael to be king over Syria. And Jehu the son of Nimshi you shall anoint to be king over Israel” (I Kings 19:15-16). In both of these accounts of God speaking from a mountain one gives the Law and one anoints kings. Now, let’s look at the account of the Mount of Transfiguration. “And after six days Jesus took with him Peter and James, and John his brother, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them, and his face shone like the sun, and his clothes became white as light. And behold, there appeared to them Moses and Elijah, talking with him. And Peter said to Jesus, ‘Lord, it is good that we are here. If you wish, I will make three tents here, one for you and one for Moses and one for Elijah.’ He was still speaking when, behold, a bright cloud overshadowed them, and a voice from the cloud said, ‘This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him.’ When the disciples heard this, they fell on their faces and were terrified. But Jesus came and touched them, saying, ‘Rise, and have no fear.’ And when they lifted up their eyes, they saw no one but Jesus only” (Matthew 17:1-8). In this case, Jesus did not go up alone as Moses and Elijah did. Jesus’ closest disciples were with him. Instead of fire and smoke there was bright light. In Exodus, God’s voice thundered. In I Kings God spoke in a whisper. God also spoke in thunder to the disciples, but also in a normal voice when Jesus said, “Rise, and have no fear.” But the real significance is not that Moses and Elijah appeared, it is in what they represent.  For, we must remember that Jesus is the God of the Old Testament. It was his voice that Moses and the congregation heard on Mount Sinai. And it was his voice that Elijah heard outside the cave. Thus, the two men appearing before Jesus during his incarnation are signposts, pointers, representing these truths: Jesus is the fulfillment of the Law (Moses) Jesus is the fulfillment of prophecy (Elijah), and Jesus is the one anointed king The authority of the Law and the proclamation of prophecy begin and end with Jesus. The Father signifies this when he loudly pronounces, “This is my beloved Son…listen to him!” And beautifully, the first words Jesus speaks after this proclamation are, “Rise, and have no fear.” What is the Lord doing in your life, right now? Are you fearful of God speaking and changing your life? Are you listening to Jesus? Whatever the Holy Spirit may be convicting you of through the Scripture, God’s word to you is the same as Jesus, “Rise, and have no fear.” In Exodus and I Kings, Moses and Elijah went down the mountain alone. But at the Mount of Transfiguration, Peter, John, and James walked down the mountain  with  Jesus. God is not just a thundering voice or one who commands from afar. In Jesus we are with him, through the presence of his Holy Spirit. So, in this case, we have nothing to fear beyond the reverential fear that is due him. You can submit to him knowing that his word to you is true (Law), and that his calling on your life is sure (Elijah). You can submit to his authority, because he possesses it whether you obey or not, and he much prefers to walk with you down the mountain. guywithabible.com

Dear Roger, My pastor told me that I never have to sin again. How can that be true? Sincerely, Katie Dear Katie, The problem is a misunderstanding of what really happened at our new birth: something is alive and something is not. Christ is alive and our old sin nature is not. Let me illustrate this for you by the story of Samson in  Judges 14:5-8 . While the strongman was walking through a vineyard a young lion attacked him. Samson killed it as easily as he might kill a small goat. He left it by the side of the road. Several days later he passed by and noticed that bees had built a hive in the lion carcass. So, he made up a riddle and bet the Philistines that they could not solve it: “Out of the eater comes something to eat. Out of the strong comes something sweet ( Judges 14:14 ). In essence the answer is that honey comes out of the dead lion’s carcass. When we are born again a new life springs forth (honey). Nothing can be done to fix or improve the old dead carcass (our sin nature). At the moment of our conversion, new birth occurs and simultaneously our old sin nature is crucified with Jesus: I am  crucified with Christ  and it is no longer I who live; but Christ lives in me.  –  Galatians 2:20 So, why do I still sin? Many wonder: “I expected that the new birth would make everything right in my life. I expected that by this inward change my evil nature would be transformed into a good and holy one. I still struggle with sin just as much as before. What is wrong with me?” When we are born again, the Holy Spirit produces new life in us. We are “partakers of the divine nature” as referenced in  2 Peter 1:4 . Unfortunately, after conversion, many Christians endure endless pain trying to improve the dead lion – to morally disinfect the sin nature, to make it more bearable to a decent and religious society – but the dead lion is still a dead lion, no matter how we dress him up. For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be rendered powerless, that we should no longer be slaves to sin, because anyone who has died has been freed from sin . –  Romans 6:6-7 The misunderstanding is that we can do something to empower the victory. The old nature is dead. We look to Christ to grow and empower the new nature. Why did Paul call our old nature the body of death? I remember reading that near Tarsus, where Paul was born, lived a tribe that inflicted a most gruesome punishment upon a convicted murderer. They fastened the body of the victim to that of the killer, tying shoulder to shoulder, back to back, arm to arm, and then drove the killer from the community. The bonds were so tight that he could not free himself, and after a few days the decay in the dead body transferred itself to the living flesh of the murderer. Paul might have had that ghastly punishment in mind in expressing his desire to be rid of the sin that clung to his flesh. Let’s look at  5 ways you can set yourself free from the bondage of sin: 1.  Remember that sin isn’t in charge of you. In  Romans 6-7  Paul isn’t saying that sin has been eradicated. We might say it this way:  the old sin nature is deprived of its strength.  It is deprived of its controlling influence. Paul defines exactly what he means in the next phrase, that we should  no longer be slaves to sin . That’s the issue. The old nature is rendered inoperative as the sovereign of our lives. The old sin nature does not lose its influence altogether, it loses its controlling influence, its sovereign influence, its mastery, its dominion. He’s not saying there won’t be sin; he saying that  sin isn’t in charge anymore . The tyranny of sin is broken. 2. Stop struggling. I was swimming at the gym, but couldn’t kick my legs properly. I had a leg injury. I struggled to get to the side of the pool. Suddenly, I was underwater and couldn’t stand up. I thrashed around as I fought to get to the side; but I went under and couldn’t find my way out. I panicked. I remembered thinking, “So this is how you drown...” Then I remembered what a lifeguard does. He waits until the victim stops struggling. Then he can get him back to shore. So I stopped swimming and started floating. The same is true for us. We will never find victory over our sins until we learn that struggling means sinking. Then and only then will we look for deliverance in the Deliverer. What a wretched man that I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord  –  Romans 7:24-25 3. Choose freedom. God is not expecting us to improve man in the flesh, or looking for goodness in him of any kind. The dead lion is not our source of victory. Now that are our old sin nature has been crucified with Christ,  we have the choice to choose to live the resurrected life  of Jesus Christ. For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be rendered powerless, that we should no longer be slaves to sin—because anyone who has died has been freed from sin. –  Romans 6:6-7 Before salvation we were controlled and dominated by the old man, old nature, sin nature. We were slaves to sin. Because the sin nature is crucified, we are now free to choose whether or not to sin. Imagine you are a disarmed soldier captured by your enemy. A machine gun is aimed directly at your face. That was our condition before Christ died for us. Our former self had the gun and we were the prisoner. Now, imagine that out of the corner of our eye we see a soldier friend creep up and shoot our enemy. Our enemy falls dead. This is our present position in Christ. The old self is dead. We don’t have to serve him any longer. We have our lives to live again! Why would we ever be so stupid as to prop up our enemy’s gun in his dead hands and obey whatever he tells us to do? If a Christian sins, it is only because he/she wants to. 4. Position and condition. Sanctification is God’s making us on earth what we already are in heaven. Our position is what God sees us to be as if we already were in heaven. Our position in Christ is perfect. Everything that belongs to Christ is ours! Everything that is true of Christ is true of us. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus.  –  Ephesians 2:6 For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, and you have been given fullness in Christ.  –  Colossians 2:9-10 Our condition is where we are in our Christian walk. Our condition has to do with the imperfect state of our Christian lives on earth. By the way, the smaller the gap between our position and condition, the more likely we are to look and behave like Jesus. Let me demonstrate the difference between  position  and  condition  in the church life of the Corinthians. Their position was wonderful. They were saved, sanctified, and holy ( 1 Corinthians 1:2 ). On the other hand, their condition was dastardly deficient. My brothers, some from Chloe's household have informed me that there are quarrels among you.  –  1 Corinthians 1:1 . It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you...A man has his father's wife. And you are proud! Shouldn't you rather have been filled with grief.  –  1 Corinthians 5:1 As we dwell upon our position there will be a drastic change in our condition. The power that sin seems to have over us will be broken. Now we are free to enter into the resurrection life of Christ! Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is our life, appears, then you will also appear with him in glory.  –  Colossians 3:1-5 5. Live free. Some will find it relatively easy to overcome their sinning. Others will find it takes quite a while to make basic changes. But, over time, our sinning should become less and less. The country of England was taxing the American colonies mercilessly in the 1700s. Finally, the American colonies rose up against England and thus began the American Revolutionary war. The Declaration of Independence was signed in 1776, which declared that the new United States was free from the power of England. But the war continued until 1783 when the British were beaten at the Battle of Yorktown. ? Our declaration of independence from sin was signed in 32 AD at the crucifixion and resurrection of Christ. Now the battle for freedom begins. While the crucifixion of the old nature sets us free from having to sin, we must still make the choice not to. Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.  –  Colossians 3:15 Therefore as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  –  Colossians 3:12 Let me give you a scenario: A man is stopped at a stoplight when a gorgeous woman steps onto the crosswalk. Before Christ, his old nature didn’t help him at all. He fell right into lust. After Christ He can say, “I don’t have to do that anymore. I am dead to that. I can live by the Spirit.” Instead of lusting, he can begin praying for her to have a life in Christ, for things to go well at work, for needs in her family. Here’s another scenario: One woman has been hurt by another. She’s tempted to spread rumors about the one who hurt her. She’s going to get even. She’s bitter and angry. With the old nature alive, fighting back was the most natural thing in the world. But now with the old nature dead, she has a choice. Instead of yielding to the old sin nature, she should follow Jesus’ advice and pray for her enemies, those who hurt her. We don’t ever  have to  sin again. Let’s live in the power of Jesus’ new life in us. May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.  –  Galatians 6:14 Well Katie, I hope I have answered your question well. Let me know if you have more questions. Sincerely, Roger

Dear Roger, I've attended so many churches that are mean and unwelcoming. So many Christians fight and are hypocritical. I am embarrassed to say I go to my church. Can you comment on what happens when a bad church gives a bad name to the Christian Church At Large? Sincerely, Bill Dear Bill, Of course, I would love to comment. Once upon a time a preacher was sentenced to prison. Not long afterwards, he met up with a group of prisoners who had recently found Christ while incarcerated. When he first attended their weekly Bible Study he candidly shared that he used to be a preacher. Immediately someone in the group whispered, “Well, don’t tell any one; you’re bad advertising.” We all know of churches that are just down-right-bad advertising for the Kingdom. Whether a church contributes a good or bad name largely depends upon how closely it monitors its message, its morals and the loving manner (or not) by which it presents itself to society at large. Cults or hate groups can hide in plain sight under religious auspices. Here's an example: A few years ago, Justin Kendall summarized the actions of the Westboro Church in response to an Arizona shooting. Westboro Baptist Church Thanks God For Shooter As the nation mourned a senseless, tragic loss of this mass murder, there were some who were praising God for the shooter's actions. The Westboro Baptist Church (widely known for their “God Hates Fags” shtick and frequent protests of funerals, concerts and religious organizations) announced they would picket the funerals of those killed during the deadly rampage. This includes the funeral of 9-year-old Christina Green. On a message posted on the Westboro Baptist Church website the group states, “Thank God for the Shooter!” Of course, the Westboro church was unmasked as a “hate group” that few would associate with Christianity in any form or fashion. However, we do well to ask whether or not our own church is helping to give a good name or a bad one to the Christian Church at Large. Let me give some examples. Some churches model themselves after the Old Testament Prophets and see their main job as confronting society with their immorality and sin. They attempt to change morals and behaviors into Biblical ones by changing the laws and influencing the politics of our Land. Unfortunately, changing outward behavior does little to change the heart. The danger for this type of church is to shout so loudly with a voice of judgment that the other churches are seldom heard. 78% of Americans consider the evangelical church to be the most judgmental church in America. This does not bode well for the name of Christ.   Some churches fear society, so they withdraw in an attempt to keep themselves and their children from being exposed to the ills of society. The danger here is their failure to carry out the Great Commandment to evangelize the world and to welcome people unlike themselves into their Fellowship. This type of church basically is irrelevant in affecting good or bad to the Name. However, their attitude of caring for themselves often spills over into society as a whole and people are drawn to a church that cares for people. When this occurs the name of the Church is exalted. Some churches intentionally penetrate the culture in ways that help spiritually disenfranchised people find spiritual life in the church . This church may be criticized for all the things it doesn’t do, but what it does do, it does passionately. It often evangelizes people who will be reached by no other means and in no other places. Some churches attract people “at any cost” in the hope of eventually introducing them to Christ. One danger here is failure to keep the gospel message pure. Another danger is their inability to properly disciple new Christians. The good thing is that they spread a wide net that eventually leads many to Christ. Please notice that I have given only a few examples of different churches and how they impact—good or bad—the Name of the Christian Church At Large. But, it may well be that everything that I wrote in the previous paragraphs is totally irrelevant to you. Let me tell you what I mean. I once took notes on an observation of the current Christian Church by my friend, Dr. David Ferguson, of Intimate Life Ministries. He said: Imagine a world where Immorality is widespread, Materialism is a god, Corruption is common place, the persecution of Christians is increasing, and absolute truth is mocked as if it doesn’t exist. Am I describing the 21 st century or the 1 st century? The irony is that, in the face of all those same issues, the 1 st century church turned the world upside down and we struggle barely to survive. How did they thrive in the expression of the Christian faith and we barely survive? Let me make a suggestion: Let’s explore what they had that we don’t. They had much, much less than we have: no media, fewer resources, less money, few church buildings—so that’s not what made the difference. Instead, I suggest that they had an identity as a people who knew how to love God and how to love others. The difference is that we have lost our sense of identity as a people who know how to love. The surveys done today when non-Christians are asked to evaluates Christians are alarming. NonChristian tend to describe us as, “Those are the people who are against this and against that, protest this or that, they are the most judgmental people in society.” On the other hand, the first century church was committed to the simplicity of loving God and loving others. The 20 th century church will be relevant when we again become known as the people who know how to love. Remember that Jesus said in John 13: “The world will know that you are my disciples when you…: Know a lot of stuff—No! Do a lot of stuff—No! Judge a lot of stuff—No! Love one another—Yes! Sincerely, Roger

Dear Roger, My husband and I were discussing how much you had to believe to be a real Christian? So that’s my question. Sincerely, Lanette Dear Lanette, Christianity is a faith-based religion. Good works, behaviors and trying to live a good life have absolutely nothing to do with being a Christian. Being a Christian is a matter of faith and belief. “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9). Paul’s definition of the gospel is simple and succinct: “Faith plus nothing equals salvation.” If we put anything in place of nothing then we have twisted and perverted the gospel into something it can never be. But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach a gospel other than the one we preached to you, let them be under God’s curse! (Galatians 1:8-9) THE FIVE ESSENTIALS If you get the following five essentials correct, you can trust that you’re a Christian. 1. JESUS IS 100% GOD AND 100% MAN . “Hydrostatic union” is the word used to describe this fact. The hypostatic union is inscrutable which means that no one can understand it. We must believe it by faith. As God, Jesus rules the universe. As man, he died on the cross for our sin. “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God” (John 1:1). . “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us” (John 1:14). 2. JESUS WAS VIRGIN BORN. The virgin birth proclaims that Jesus was born with no male intervention. Must we believe in the virgin birth to be a Christian? When I became a Christian at the age of seven, I didn’t know what a virgin was. On the other hand, it is not possible for one who’s old enough to know what a virgin is, to reject this doctrine, and be a Christian. “. . . and Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, out of whom was born Jesus, who is called the Messiah” (Matthew 1:16). 3. THE SUBSTITUTIONARY ATONEMENT DECLARES THAT JESUS DIED IN OUR PLACE ON THE CROSS. We deserve to die for our sin. Fortunately, Jesus was our substitute who took our punishment upon himself to pay the price to forgive our sin. “All have sinned and come short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). “For the wages of sin is; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ his son” (Romans 6:23). “Then he took a cup, . . . ‘This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins’” (Matthew 26:27-28). 4. THE RESURRECTION IS OUR PROOF THAT JESUS CHEATED DEATH, AND IF WE BELIEVE IN HIM, WE CAN CHEAT DEATH, TOO. Jesus did not raise himself from the dead. The Bible is very clear that the resurrection was engineered by both God the father and the Holy Spirit Had Jesus faltered at any place, he would’ve been left in the tomb. “The angel said to the women, ‘Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay’” (Matthew 28:5-6). 5. WE MUST MAKE A CONSCIOUS DECISION TO SURRENDER OUR LIVES TO JESUS CHRIST AS OUR SAVIOR AND LORD. No one is born a Christian. Following Christ is a personal decision of the will. Forgiveness of sin is a free gift, but it doesn’t come automatically. The gift is received by accepting Christ personally. “Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12). WE MUST STOP FIGHTING OVER THE NONESSENTIALS. “Brothers and sisters, I could not address you as people who live by the Spirit but . . . As mere infants in Christ. I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready. You are still worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly? Are you not acting like mere humans? (1 Corinthians 3:1-3). Pastor Craig down the street told his congregation not to go to our church on Sunday nights because we didn’t believe in speaking in tongues. Several weeks later he and I met on the sidewalk taking our children to school (a divine encounter?). With a friendly manner, I told him that I’d heard what he told his people. He blushed. So I said, “One day you and I may stand before a firing squad because we follow Jesus. Neither one of us is going to care about who speaks in tongues and who doesn’t.” Several weeks later he invited me to preach in his church. Again, there are the five essentials. If we get these right, we will be fit for earth and ready for heaven. Love, Roger

Dear Roger, I am forty-years old and I am soon to get married for the first time. My fiancé is in her mid-thirties and never married either. I’d like to do something very special when I propose to her. By the way, I am an ex-con who is now serving as a full-time youth pastor. (But, that is another story.) It’s a lot more fun serving the Lord in ministry than serving the state in prison. I had a lot of time to think about the chance that I might one day get married. Now that it has actually come true, I want to make my marriage proposal something special. My plan is to take her to our church worship Center around 9 o’clock in the evening. All will be dark until I turn on the lights focusing on the front platform. We will walk down the aisle and I will invite her to sit on the front step. Then I will ask her to take off her stockings. I know she will protest but I’ll ask her to trust me. Under the front pew I’ve is hidden a basin of water and a towel. I’m going to take the wet towel and begin to wash her feet. Then I’m going to say, “I want to wash your feet for the rest of your life.” Then, I plan to pull out the ring and ask, “Will you marry me?” Since we’ve already discussed marriage I know she’ll say, “Yes”. Here is where you can help. I’m asking several friends to share with me their favorite love poems from the Bible. I want to use several as expressions of my love and faithfulness to her. Could I be so bold as to ask for your creativity? People always quote 1 Corinthians 13 and Ruth’s commitment to Naomi as examples of love and commitment. But I wonder if you can find a poem or passage that is seldom if ever used in a wedding context. I know you’re busy but the right passage could make my proposal both loving and memorable. Thanks for the consideration. Sincerely, Torch (don’t ask) Dear Torch, I’ve performed approximately 400 weddings in my career as a pastor. I only had two ceremony outlines. I chose one or the other based on the couple but there was little difference between the two. I just didn’t have enough time to make up a new ceremony for every couple. So, I use the same three or four passages in every wedding service. When I read your email I immediately thought of a passage in the book of Habakkuk. I have never used nor heard it used in any wedding ceremony ever. However, it has some of the most touching and loving words in the entire Bible. Let me give you a little context that you may find helpful in crafting how you use this passage with your fiancée. In the Old Testament book of Habakkuk the Lord told Habakkuk that he was sending the Babylonians to punish Israel because of their sins. Habakkuk asked, “But what about the Babylonians? How could you use them to punish us? They’re worse than we are. What are you going to do about them (That’s also a story.)? For 2 ½ chapters God details the fiery destruction, murderous invasion and torturous circumstances that soon will be unleashed upon Israel by the Babylonians. Habakkuk tells us that he was terrified. In fact he describes the shaking of his body and the thinking feeling in his stomach as he anticipates the destruction to come. He is about to lose everything he had. He’s going to lose his house, his family, his friends, his job, and most likely his life. He closes his book with one of the greatest love songs of faith and commitment that’s ever been sung. Listen. Can you hear it? Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, 18  yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will be joyful in God my Savior. This is what you tell your fiancée: “I don’t care if all of nature goes crazy. I don’t care if everything goes wrong in the whole world. I’m going to love you and rejoice in you forever.” Of course, you’ll want to add to this and spice it up with the words of love and commitment which will be in your heart no matter what the circumstances that may come to you in life. I hope you find this helpful. Let me know how it all works out. Sincerely, Ask Roger

Dear Roger, What does the Bible say about the vegan or vegetarian lifestyle? It seems that In Genesis 1 there is evidence that God intended for us to be vegetarians. Is there other evidence? I know as a Texan this might be a tough one for you but I would love to have your Biblical teaching perspective. Thanks, Tom Dear Roger, I have become vegetarian complete in the last two months. I cannot stand the thought of eating anything anymore which is slaughtered. I have seen the atrocities of the slaughterhouses of cow, pig, chicken and for the life of me I can't believe a God would say that is okay to eat. A creature he created. The slaughtering process for the most part is inhumane. And the treatment of the poor animals is barbaric. My conscious will not let me eat any of it anymore. So, I am not sure I agree with that it's all right for us as Christians. Sincerely, Audrey Dear Tom and Audrey, Have you ever eaten pigeon? You may be surprised, but, they taste quite good. Young pigeons are called squabs. They are a delicacy in many places--like our pigeon coop. Ronnie and I began with one male and one female. Three years later we had over fifty. We had rollers, tumblers, muff tumblers, fantails and numerous just plain old pigeons. One of our fantails came in third in a local pigeon contest. That was the closest we came to winning a contest; but competing was fun! The day came to do them all in. Ronnie and I were tired of the upkeep; and besides, dad made us pay for the grain and we were broke. So, the day before school began for the Fall semester mom started boiling water for defeathering. Ron and I got a trash can and started ringing necks. We ate squab for the next six months. Ron and I often looked at the cooked squabs on our plates and tried to guess which ones we were eating. Mom thought we were barbaric. But, you know, boys will be boys! As one who loves to eat Texas Bar-B-Q, without pangs of conscience, the idea of vegan and vegetarian diets seem mighty strange to me. When I was growing up, mom and dad filled a special freezer with half a cow of butchered meat every year. (She also stocked it with Twinkies and Fried Pies for desert in our school lunches.) We ate a lot of steak when I was growing up. Imagine my surprise when a recent angiogram revealed that my arteries were the size of “tree trunks” (doctor’s words). I had a 16 oz slice of prime rib to celebrate. Now, Tom and Audrey, let’s get down to business. I believe that God's original intention was for us to be vegetarians. In Genesis before the fall into sin, God gave Adam and Eve the responsibility of caring for the Earth. He specifically He gave them plants and vegetables to eat. Then God said, "I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. And to all the beasts of the earth and all the birds of the air and all the creatures that move on the ground—everything that has the breath of life in it—I give every green plant for food." And it was so.God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day (Genesis 1:27-31). Man and Woman were to procreate and populate the earth. God gave them dominion over the birds and animals. God prescribed a vegetarian or vegan diet. Adam and Eve were free to eat all the plants and vegetation they wanted. The Creator made no mention of allowing them to eat animal flesh. The earliest record of an animal giving its life for the good of mankind is found in Genesis 3:21: “The LORD God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them.” Many suppose that one of the results of Adam’s and Eve’s fall into sin (Genesis Three) is that men and women may now eat meat. The healthiest diets—vegetarian and vegan—are no longer mandatory. Unfortunately, Adam and Eve disobeyed God's instructions and everything fell apart. Sin entered the world; God's perfect world was devastated and God slaughtered the first animal. Covering human private parts with fig leaves for modesty and then keeping them in place is not practical. Animal skins work much better. God slaughtered one of His precious animals to cover mans' sin. By the way, God used this as a picture symbol of Jesus one day giving His life on the cross. Man has eaten meat ever since. Vegetarians are categorized into four levels. Level One: Someone who is cutting back on red meat but still eats chicken and fish. Level Two: Someone who avoids meat but eats dairy products including eggs, cheese, ice cream, milk and yogurt. Level Three: Someone with the same diet as Level Two but excludes eggs while still consuming products like milk, yogurt and cheese. Level Four: Someone who is considered a true vegan who has the same diet as Level Three but who refuses to use any animal products such as wool, silk and leather. Both well-planned—and followed—vegetarian diets offer protection against obesity, heart and renal diseases, cancer, and rheumatoid arthritis. The American Dietetic Association considers both vegetarian and vegan diets to be appropriate for every stage of life. The Association also warns that a poorly planned vegetarian or vegan diet can be deficient in multiple areas. For example, a vegetarian diet is often deficient in protein. Not enough protein may cause serious health problems as well as create agitation and anxiety. Let’s be clear about this: Meat Eaters are not sinning by enjoying a good steak—or fish or chicken or whatever. Neither are vegetations closer to God or more spiritual than meat eaters. The Apostle Paul was in the process of settling a dispute between those Christians that he identified as “weaker brothers” who were refraining from eating meat that had earlier been offered to an idol, and those who had no pangs of conscience about eating idol-offered meat. Paul counseled both groups to eat the meat and not worry about it: “Eat anything sold in the meat market without raising questions of conscience, for, ‘The earth is the Lord's, and everything in it.’” (1 Corinthians 10:25-26). Thanks to both of you for your questions. I hope that you really enjoy eating—whether your plate has meat on it or not. Love, Roger

Dear Roger, I’ve been a nominal Christian for years. Recently I was invited to a Bible study group where they were studying in 1 John about spiritual children. It began to dawn on me that I was one. I think that I’m really a spiritual baby. Can you help me understand this better? Sincerely, Thomas   Dear Thomas, In an effort to evaluate the quality of their church education programs, one Southern Baptist Church made a simple questionnaire see how well they were doing. You had to be a Christian for at least 20 years in order to participate. Here are some of their answers. “The Gospels are Matthew, Mark, Luther and John.” “Eve was created from an apple.” “Sodom and Gomorrah were lovers.” “Noah carried his ark in the desert for 40 years.” (No. David carried the Ark of the Covenant into the temple). “Which miracle of Jesus is the only one reported in all four Gospels? Answer: “I have not the slightest idea.” (Feeding the 5000) Arrested development is a sad state of affairs. God’s intention is for us to mature spiritually in a smooth-constant progression from spiritual babies to fathers and mothers. Arrested development can occur at any spiritual level. From your letter it seems to me that you’re stuck in spiritual baby hood.  Of course, from your letter, it’s obvious you realize that we are not all on the same spiritual level. We know that from four passages in the New Testament. In First John 21 Jesus told Peter to feed His sheep and tend His little lambs. In First John 2 John says that spiritual children know God and that their sins are forgiven. They are just getting started in the Christian life. In First Corinthians 3 Paul describes Christians who fight with each other as spiritual children. Hebrews 5:11-6:3 identifies most spiritual children as babies and lays out the characteristics of spiritual infants. First, Spiritual Babies Are Lazy . Hebrews 5:11: “We have so much to say about this, but it is hard to explain because you are slow to learn.” “Slow to learn” is the translation of the Greek word, “lazy”. The Hebrews had become too lazy to make any effort at improvement. They were spiritual goof offs. Unfortunately, this is an accurate spiritual description of the many Christians who are spiritually lazy. We are not lazy at work, home, hobbies, games and the Internet. Unfortunately, we are lazy and inattentive about spiritual things. The Bible is to be studied and learned. It’s my observation that many Christians spend an hour or two on the Internet each day, and perhaps five or ten minutes searching the Scriptures–if that much. Our maturity is purchased at the cost of subordinating earthly interests to spiritual ones. Second, Spiritual Babies Know Little About The Content Of The Bible. Let me share with you simple Bible content test. What two Psalms are just alike? Why? (53 and 14) In what two places are the 10 Commandments found? (Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5) What is the main theme of the book of Obadiah? (pride) What passages deal with homosexuality? (Romans 1 and Colossians 3) What does God say in the Old Testament about divorce? In the New Testament? The book of Jude is just like what other New Testament book? (2 Peter) What is the most important Bible verse? (John 3:16) These questions are not just a game. I hope that they give some indication of just how much – or how little – we expose ourselves to the Word Of God. Third, Spiritual Babies Handle The Word Of God Poorly. This has to do with counseling biblical advice to those who need it. One mark of spiritual maturity is the ability to help others sort out what’s profitable and unprofitable, to distinguish between good and evil, to discern the promptings of the Spirit and the solicitations of Satan, to differentiate between the desires of the new nature and the lustings of the old, what is wholesome and what is hurtful, as well as God’s plan and intention for their lives. Fourth, Spiritual Babies Who’ve Had Enough Time Ought Soon To Be Teachers. Unfortunately, They Need Baby Food Because They Cannot Handle Spiritual Meat. Some five-year-old Christians don’t know which Psalms were written by Moses. Some ten-year-old Christians are unable to locate the Sermon On The Mount without help. Some fifteen-year-old Christians have never led a soul to Christ. Some twenty-year-old Christians can’t locate all three descriptions of Paul’s conversion experience. Much less, explain the differences between them Major Ian Thomas: “I have discovered an interesting thing about American Christians. They do not usually come to church to learn anything. Whatever they do not yet know themselves they think is not really necessary.” Fifth, Babies Have Inadequate Knowledge Of Christ. The pinnacle of spiritual maturity, as a spiritual mother or father, is to know Christ, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of entering into his sufferings. Spiritual babies have a hard time thinking about entering into Christ’s sufferings ( Philippians 3:10-12 ). Sixth, Earthly Things Still Dominate Their Attention. A person may be a Christian for 20 or 30 years, but if they’re still engrossed with the things of the world, they are babies. Seventh, Babies Often Neglect To Get Baptized By Immersion Like Jesus Commanded. Baptism is the first test of obedience for a new Christian. Jesus’ departing instructions to his followers were that they make disciples and baptize. Properly translated, the word, “baptism” means to “dip, dunk or immerse”. It does not mean “sprinkle”. Baptism is our open declaration of faith in Christ. As we stand in the water we represent Christ on the cross. As we go under the water we represent his burial. As we come up out of the water we represent his resurrection. Paul said that baptism is important because it is a sign of our identification with Jesus. Eighth, Babies Are Still Struggling To Decide Whether Or Not They Will Sell Out To Jesus Or Not At Any Price. Luke 6:46: “Why do you call Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? God’s way or my way? That is the issue for babies. So, a young woman comes to me for counseling. She’s found her true love; but unfortunately, he’s not a Christian and she is. I use my Bible to explain to her why Christians are not to marry non-Christians. She swore to me that her marriage would be different. This is, “baby talk”. So she did it her way, and shortly after the wedding she suffered the consequences. A.W Tozer: “Every Man Or Woman Is Just As Spiritual As He Or She Wants To Be.” I will not go into this now; but, Paul says that if we have not grown out of spiritual childhood within three years of receiving Christ, we are falling spiritually behind. How Do I Grow Spiritually? There’s no real secret. It’s really quite simple. First, read your Bible. Paul says that Bible study is essential to growth. Second, pray. Here we find intimacy with Jesus Christ. Third, go to the right church. Here we grow spiritually with the people God. Thomas, I’ll pray right now for God to get you back on the track to spiritual maturity. May God give you many great days ahead. Sincerely, Roger                   :

I receive this question from many readers, especially those who are unchurched. But Holly, a Christian, voices a question we all have asked at one time or another. Dear Roger, Why did so many people of the bible sit under trees or go into nature to hear God? I'm sure there is a connection… but is there a stronger connection for us with God in nature?" Sincerely, Holly Dear Holly, The Bible records God speaking to many people in a variety of places. God can speak anywhere at any time and anywhere He wants. However, you are on to something when you ask about God speaking to people under trees and in nature. Here are some Biblical examples of where and how God may speak. Notice that some are indoors and others outdoors. • Jesus Christ speaks to us ( Hebrews 1:1-3 ) when we read our bibles ( Psalms 119:105 ) wherever we might be. • God speaks to us when we are outside riding  donkeys ( Numbers 22:30 ). • God speaks to children when they are in their bedrooms Bedtime ( 1 Samuel 3:8-9 ). • God speaks to us when we are outside looking at the stars ( Romans 1:20 ). • God speaks to us in church ( Isaiah 6:1-7 ). • God speaks when we are sitting beside bushes ( Exodus 3:1-4 ). • God speaks to us when we are asleep ( Joel 2:28 ). • God speaks to us deep in our inner most human spirit ( Jeremiah 29:12-13 ). • God speaks to us during storms, wind, earthquakes and fire ( 1 Kings 19:11-13 ). • God speaks to us when we are sitting under trees ( Jonah 4:6 ). • Finally, God speaks us to in nature when everything is quiet ( 1 Kings 19:13 ). As you can see, God speaks in many ways and in various places.  However, there is a difference between God speaking and our hearing Him. The best way to hear God speak is to get alone and listen--especially in nature--basking in God's creation--as long as it is quiet and peaceful where you are. Throughout history the Christian mystics have championed this practice. Let me recommend three books you will find useful. First, "Experiencing the Depths of Jesus Christ," by Madam Guyon. Next are the prayers and works of St. Thomas of Aquinas. Finally is a little book called, "Brother Lawrence" that you will find most special. Let me share how this works for me. First, I quiet down my mind. Isn't it amazing how much we can think about when we are trying to be quiet. Second, every time my mind wanders, I try to take Paul's advice and get control of my thoughts by once again focusing on being quiet before the Lord. Finally, when all is quiet, it is time to proceed. I do this in three ways. I pray slowly and thoughtfully through a passage in the Bible and listen to see if I sense God speaking to me. Sometimes I will contemplate a bible story and try to put myself, my emotions, feelings and behaviors right into the story. It always amazes me how much I sense God and am instructed by Him in these imagined stories. Often, following the guidelines of Hebrews 4:12 , I quiet my mind and allow the Word of God to “divide between soul and spirit.” As I listen, I try to discern whether what I hear emanates from my soul (my mind), or from my deep, inner, human spirit where the Holy Spirit lives. The soul is the inner part of me which is my own mind or self. The soul is my organ for intellect, will and emotions ( Hebrews 4:12 ). My human spirit is the center of my worship and communication with Jesus. When properly cultivated, our human spirit is most dependable and useful in hearing God speak. God speaks to us in the Bible and we speak to Him in prayer . This is described as praying in the mind. The Holy Spirit also speaks to us in our innermost human spirit. We speak back from out of our innermost human spirit to the Holy Spirit. This what Paul calls praying in the spirit. I am careful in listening for the voice of God. His is not the only voice that speaks. I don’t want to be misled by my own imaginings, and I certainly do not care to be fooled by Satan’s temptations, accusations, or deceits. Neither do I want to be led astray by human ignorance, stupidity or misguided spirituality. During a worship service a woman whispered quietly to Julie: “I have a word from the Lord for you. You will be like the prophetess, Anna, in Luke 2 . You will be widowed after seven years and spend the rest of your life ministering in sweet service to Jesus.” "Don’t you see me standing here?" I wanted to ask. "Julie's my fiancé. We're getting married in June." I held my tongue and looked at the young girl who would soon be my wife. If this nosy woman were right, I'd be dead in seven years. On our seventh anniversary I stayed awake until midnight just to be sure that the voice she had been listening to was not God's. God’s voice is not the only voice that speaks. Self and Satan can both wreak havoc in the lives of Christians who are unable to distinguish among the three. Whenever I sense what may be a word from God, I refuse to accept it until I carefully consider whether I am hearing from God, Myself, Satan, or hard-of-hearing, misguided humans. When people say, “God told me…” I often respond, “How are you certain the words were from God?” If they can’t give a definitive answer then I seldom consider the message they are delivering. I don’t want to make a mistake and follow the wrong voice. Over the years, I've developed a biblical checklist of what I think God’s voice sounds like. The list is in broad generalizations and is certainly not complete, nor foolproof. No one point is sufficient to prove or disprove the voice of God. Nevertheless, I believe that these principles are helpful when they line up in a sensible, godly fashion. God tends to speak with gentle leadings in contrast to what I often perceive to be the compulsive, clamoring, loud demands of Self or Satan ( 1 Kings 19:11-13 ). God’s voice produces freedom. Self’s or Satan’s voice often produces bondage ( Matthew 11:28-30 ). God tends to speak when we are consciously seeking Him. Self or Satan tend to speak with sudden intrusions of thoughts into the mind ( Jeremiah 29:12-13 ). When God speaks there is a definite sense that everything is under control. When Self or Satan speaks there is an inner sense that something is out of control ( Psalms 37:4 ). God gives clear-cut, specific directions. Self or Satan often communicates in confused, uncertain wonderings God convicts of specific sins. Self and Satan often accuse in broad generalities that leave a lingering sense of haunting and unfocused guilt ( John 16:8 ). God speaks with 100 percent truth that can be tested by the Word of God. Self and Satan often traffic in lies, deceit and half-truths ( John 14:6 ). God’s voice always leads to a deep, abiding sense of peace. Self or Satan often do not ( Philippians 4:7 ). God's voice is testable and confirmed by the wisdom of many counselors ( Proverbs 11:14 ; Deuteronomy 19:15 ; and Matthew 18:16 ). We were considering the relocation of our church operations. Full parking lots and six weekend worship services had maxed-out our site. Standing in front of the bathroom mirror one Saturday I almost dropped my razor at the thought that flashed into my mind. Instead of going to all the trouble and expense of relocating, why not purchase the eight houses surrounding our property? We could build a new worship center and expand our parking lots to make room for new growth. I thanked God for revealing this new course of action. I told our church leaders what God told me and led the church to make plans to purchase the adjoining houses. The surrounding subdivision deed restrictions required that a majority of the one-hundred fifty-six nearby homeowners agree with the required rezoning and sale. Six months, numerous unpleasant neighborhood association meetings, and well over one hundred irate neighbors later, we called off the deal. I was still licking my wounds when a wise saint said to me privately, “You ignored the Tenth Commandment: ‘You shall not covet your neighbor’s house.’” I am careful in listening for the voice of God. His is not the only voice that speaks. I don’t want to be misled by my own imaginings, and I certainly do not care to be fooled by Satan’s temptations, accusations, or deceits. Neither do I want to be led astray by human ignorance, stupidity or misguided spirituality. Whenever I sense what may be a word from God, I refuse to accept it until I carefully consider whether I am hearing from God, Myself, Satan, or hard-of-hearing, misguided humans. When people say, “God told me…” I often respond, “How are you certain the words were from God?” If they can’t give a definitive answer then I seldom consider the message they are delivering. I don’t want to make a mistake and follow the wrong voice. Well, Holly, I hope that my answer is helpful. I answered a little more than you asked. However, I hope that the extra material is helpful as well. Love, Roger

Dear Roger, From the time I was about 7 until I was a teenager my step dad … sexually abused me. … Even though I grew up abused I felt I was in a normal childhood . My mom was incredible but I sometimes feel she should have known want was happening. My mom passed away several years ago, and left a note to my sister and I and asked us to be good to our dad because he loved us. How could he? I tried to forgive, I can’t. I know the Bible says we need to forgive, but how? Anonymous Dear Roger, During my freshman year of college I was raped. I have had this fear inside of me that it's going to happen again. Each day I feel scared and wonder why God would let that happen to me ... I have a strong faith in God but this all makes me wonder "why me?" I know that God loves me and is there for me, but this makes me wonder where He was during those moments Thank you, Unknown Dear Roger, Both me and my sister were sexually abused by a cousin who was a teenager at the time. Several years later something inside me told it was time to tell my parents. This was about two years ago needless to say our family has not been the same.Growing up in church, attending prayer service, Sunday school, serving in different ministries it was embedded in my mind we must forgive our enemies … I can only recall this abuse happening once to me but I know it happened to my sister several times. My anger isn't toward my cousin, it is towards my aunt because she knew about the abuse as she caught him in a bedroom with my sister, and her answer was to spank him and my sister. … This has torn our family apart. From attending church every week, we hardly go anymore. As for me I have forgiveness towards my enemy. I wish I could say the same for my sister. I want to help her find peace, I want her to find happiness and success in life. I know God works in mysterious ways and he gives us trial because he knows we're capable of overcoming them. I know coming across this site is more than a coincidence. How do I help my sister? Name Withheld   Dear Anonymous, Unknown and Name Withheld, Several year ago one of our counselors and I surveyed a women’s Bible class of over one hundred. We, and they were shocked by the results. Forty-two percent of the women in the room reported some form of sexual abuse before the age of sixteen. Unfortunately, your experience is not unusual. Many authorities surmise that 1 in 10 families is involved in incestuous abuse. Researchers estimate that for every case of incest that is reported, at least 25 cases remain hidden. 9% of American men were sexually abused as children. This trend is increasing. 16% of American boys will be sexually misused before high school. Who can begin to count the buckets of tears shed by children (and adults) who were abused by those who should have loved them the most? Only God knows how many are mired today in emotional distress because of the traumas of their childhoods. Fortunately, all is not lost. With the proper care I believe you can find complete healing—and peace. My youngest daughter was sexually abused by an Argentine exchange student when she was 16. Like so many victims, she kept the experience hidden. Some years later we noticed that she sometimes acted strangely around boys. We never figured out why until she joined the fencing team in college. One evening she told us how she sometimes liked to aim her rapier (fencing sword) at her opponent's (male) private parts and thrust hard. It wasn't long until the whole, ugly, devastating story spilled out all over the kitchen table. Thank God for Anne. Anne specialized in helping sexually abused women find healing and wellness. Today, our youngest is happily married, has a great job and is enjoying life. Like my daughter who "acted out" with unusual behavior, many abuse victims utilize different strategies in an attempt to handle the conflicting emotions, mental onslaughts, and pains of sexual abuse. Many try to escape reality. Some invent imaginary worlds where all is well. Many begin to neglect personal looks and hygiene, often subconsciously, to make themselves unattractive to boys (men) because of their fear of ever again trusting a male or having a relationship with one. Acting out is common. Unfortunately, way too many abused feel guilty and blame themselves for what happened. Many try to "wall off" the experience and ignore it or live as if it never happened. Unfortunately, the inner poison usually begins to ooze out about the age of 35 or 40. Whenever I preach on sexual abuse, the church building is eerily silent. Not only because sexual abuse is such a “heavy” subject; but, also because some fathers and step-fathers (mothers and step-mothers) are seated beside their victims. Sexual abuse is by far and away the most severe type of abuse. The ramifications slide deep within the psyche. If someone wants to scar a child for life then sexual abuse is the way to do it. A life has been sacrificed on the altar of another’s sinful motives and nasty behaviors. Fortunately, through Jesus Christ, good counseling, and supportive friends and family, great healing can occur. Sexual abuse victims struggle in multiple areas. Simmering anger and bitterness are hard to cool down. Many seethe because their abuser likely got away with it. Many are angry with God: A forty-two-year-old woman came to our church for counseling. She was sexually violated and raped continually by her father and one of his friends when she was fourteen. She had kept her secret until it finally began oozing out almost thirty years later. One of her big issues was with God: “Where was Jesus Christ when I was being raped?" How we answer that question makes all the difference in the world. Thank God again for Anne. She helped this wounded woman through her anger and pain. The victim remembered that angels were imprinted on the curtains in the room of her abuse. Where was God? Anne led her to see that she was not alone. Jesus was right there with her and He was weeping. Of course she understood that we live in a fallen world. Anne led her to see that she was betrayed by the very person Jesus brought into her life to care for and protect her. In a fallen world people do dastardly things. Fortunately, Jesus is in the business of helping us pick up the pieces, get healed, and get on with our lives. The angels became her touchstone to experience Jesus' love and care, and to get a sense of His weeping and broken heart for her during those times. Second, many victims feel that the abuse was their fault—because they did nothing to try to stop it, or because the abuse was sometimes pleasurable, or because they feel special favors were received; or because they are so bad and sinful that they deserved the abuse. A child who has been sexually abused feels dirty, unworthy and ashamed—like damaged goods. Third, most grow up with injured emotions and distorted self-images. They feel worthless, rejected, and insignificant. Fourth, trust in men is eroded way or nonexistent. Either consciously or subconsciously, all men are potential threats. Victims of incest perceive that their parents are not trustworthy. If other adults further abuse them, they may conclude that there are no adults who are trustworthy. If this cycle of abuse continues, the adult victim may become unable to develop trust in anyone. Fifth, they struggle with relationships especially if a relationship becomes too personal and intimate. It is common for victims to sabotage the relationships they desperately need. Those married to abuse victims often feel that they are “walking on eggshells”. The triggers are often unknown to either partner; but when a mine in the minefield is stepped on, everyone gets hurt. Hopefully, through wise counseling, both partners will come to understand what is really happening and respond properly. Let's transition for a moment and talk about forgiveness. All three of you, Anonymous, Unknown and Name Withheld , mentioned this as a significant healing issue. Forgiveness doesn't mean that what happened was okay. Forgiveness doesn't mean that what happened is forgotten. Forgiveness doesn't mean that everything returns to the way it was before the perpretration. Forgiveness especially doesn't mean that family members should excuse the wrong behavior because they are “family”. Forgiveness doesn't mean that we should hide, or not talk about the abuse or shy away from conflict by not talking about the abuse. Forgiveness does not mean that if we "truly" forgive, we will "trust" each other implicitly. A sacred trust is broken, it takes time (often years) to rebuild trust with your abuser. Frankly, my experience is that such trust seldom is restored. Forgiveness does not mean that we are "letting them off the hook" for the injustice of what they've done. They are still on God's "hook" and vengeance belongs to Him. In Romans 12 Paul encouraged us, “as much as it is possible, to be at peace with all people.” The implication here is that it is not always right or healthy to have a relationship with some people. Sometimes, relationships cannot be restored and that is OK. Should your abuser be exposed and held accountable for his or her actions? Most certainly, “Yes!” Research projects confirm that an abuser will continue to repeat until the roots of their problems are uncovered and healed. If the abuser is the father or the stepfather of the abused, he must be separated from the home until he has been declared "safe" by those who are qualified to discern. However, even if some day the abuser is declared "safe," my experience is that children and teens must never be with, live in the same house, or have any sort of contact with the Perpetrator ever again. The trauma is too intense and damaging. Sometimes it may be necessary to confront the abuser. Unfortunately, this confrontation often results in more rejection and hurt because 80% of those confronted deny they did anything wrong. If he (or she) denies it, you might say, "You may deny it, but God and I both know you are guilty. I transfer to you all responsibility for what happened." In this case, reconciliation in this life is impossible. On the other hand, if he (or she) admits it, repents and confesses the sin to God and finds His forgiveness, then healing and reconciliation can perhaps occur--but never quickly. Sometimes it is not worth it to confront the abuser. Again, consider whether or not he or she would admit and take responsibility for what had happened? Would he or she stand the emotional pain that would come with a confession? Would he or she admit anything with the possibility of criminal charges and prison? If not, leave them with their guilt, shame, pain and seared conscience. You are not responsible for their healing or forgiveness before God. I wholeheartedly agree with the advice of many counselors to write a letter to the one who victimized you, and then not send it. Another healing tactic is to pretend that your abuser is seated in an empty chair while you say everything you would like to if he or she were actually present. By the way, if you choose this option, be certain to imagine that the abuser is chained tightly and silenced by a big piece of carpet tape so they no longer are a threat in any form or fashion. Some of you who are reading my answer are even now being sexually abused. To you I will make the following observations. The truth has to be exposed. We're dealing with a terrible sin and Satan wants to keep it hidden. Stopping the abuse and finding help only comes with exposure. There is no way to make exposing the sin comfortable. By the way, when a sex abuser is identified, he or she must be reported to the proper authorities. This is a requirement of law. All too often those being abused are in a Love-Hate situation. They “love their dad” and would hate to see him go to jail; but, he is responsible for his actions—and being a dad gives no right to abuse a child and scar them forever. We have talked long about you as the abused; but, what about your abuser? I know dads who are in prison and others who’ve committed suicide rather than face their own pain and shame. They leave behind a trail of emotionally cut and bleeding people. Jesus offers forgiveness if your abuser seeks it. If you are reading this letter and are now sexually abusing someone, STOP IT and get help. You are a sick person. Get help now. Don’t ruin their lives anymore. You have already done enough. Our Lord Jesus Christ is the all-time best healer of broken hearts. He healed the broken heart of the woman at the well who was on her sixth live-relationship in John 4. He forgave and restored the woman who was caught in the act of adultery in John eight. He so well restored the prostitute Mary Magdalene that God granted her the privilege of being the first individual to see the open tomb and the resurrected Christ. Again, in John 8 Jesus teaches that He is forever in the business of picking up the pieces of our broken lives and helping us to start over again. In Joel 2 God says that He can supernaturally restore again the years the “grasshoppers have eaten away.” None of us need be shacked in bondage any longer. My final word is to encourage you to find a counselor who specializes in healing sexual abuse. Not every counselor is competent in this area. You need an expert who can lead and love you back to health. My daughter found just such a counselor. Her name was Ann. If you can't find or afford the right counselor, then go to the bookstore or on line and read one of the many good books written on this particular subject. They can get you well on your way to healing. Cultivate friends who can listen to your story and grieve with you. Jesus taught that mourning and receiving comfort is the best way to heal the hurts of our lives. Again, to you three, I grieve for the pains, injustices and personal hurts that were inflicted upon you. May you find restoration and healing by the grace of the Almighty. Love, Roger

Dear Roger, You preached a powerful sermon at our church on the importance of the blood of Christ. I never forgot it. I especially liked how you explained that it is mentioned all through the Bible and why God demanded it. Do you have sermon notes that I could read? I wanted to use it in my Bible study class. Sincerely, Tim Dear Tim, I am so glad the sermon blessed you. It changed my life and especially my understanding of the heart of God. Here are the notes: WHY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST IS SO IMPORTANT-ROGER BARRIER I remember the day before my open-heart surgery. I had just turned 13. My surgeon asked, "Do you want to see heart-lung machine?" The machine had just returned from surgery.   It was covered in fresh blood. "Sorry, we haven't had time to clean it up yet," the nurse commented. My doctor proceeded to describe how the machine worked.  I was sick to my stomach. I recall waking up after surgery...it hurt so badly. I chewed ice chips and nearly suffocated under a fiery oxygen tent. I was full so full of painkillers I asked the nurse, "What are your measurements?"  That didn’t go well. The next day following my surgery, they sat me up in bed.  "Do you want to see your scar?" the doc asked.  I saw a huge mass of stitches and dried blood. I instantly vomited and kicked over the bucket of drainage fluid. I probably never got used to seeing blood after that.  Oh, I watch the nurse take my blood and see it squirt into the vial; I see one of our church members after surgery, or go to the site of a  bloody car wreck.  I always go out thinking deep, solemn thoughts. Something about the sight of blood brings life into perspective. Do you wonder how Jesus felt about it the night before He died? He entered Jerusalem. We celebrate on Palm Sunday. By Thursday night, He has the cup in His hand and it is reminding Him of His own blood. READ LUKE 22:14-20. Then He goes to the garden to pray. READ LUKE 22:39-44.  And the blood begins to flow. Then they crucified Him. READ JOHN 19:1-2,16-18,34-37. The Bible is a Book of blood and a bloody Book.  Over 700 times the blood is mentioned in the Bible. The Word of God is a living Word, wholly distinct from all other books for just one reason, namely, that it contains blood circulating through every page and in every verse. The precious blood of salvation is woven throughout the Bible like the central motif of a priceless piece of tapestry. The scarlet thread runs through every page. When God demanded a proper sacrifice for Cain & Abel what was demanded? The Blood of a lamb! When the Death Angel passed through Egypt what was placed on doorposts? The Blood of lamb! When the high priest entered Holy Place in Jerusalem on Day of Atonement to ask forgiveness for the sins of Israel what did he take in with him? The Blood of an unblemished lamb! When God demanded one final sacrifice to pay for all the sins of all of the world for all time - what was asked for? The Blood of the perfect Lamb of God - Jesus Christ! JESUS KNEW THAT HE HAD TO SHED HIS BLOOD.  THAT IS WHY HE WAS AGONIZING GO GREATLY.  WHY DID JESUS HAVE TO SHED HIS BLOOD? READ MARK 10:45:  "...Son of Man came to give His life as a Ransom for many." WHAT'S A RANSOM? Let's make it in terms we really understand. Terrorists hijack an airplane and they hold the hostages for what? For ransom. Those hostages are in bondage to those terrorist kidnappers until the ransom is paid. You pay the ransom, and then the folks in bondage are set free. It's interesting to me that the Bible teaches very clearly that all of us are in bondage. QUESTION: IN BONDAGE TO WHAT?  OR WHOM?  WHO IS THE CAPTOR? If you say, Satan! - wrong! – You can't defend that Biblically - God doesn't bargain with Satan for men's souls. READ VERSES and let you decide. John 8:34 - men are called "slaves to sin" Rom 6:17 - men are called "slaves to sin" Rom 7:14 - men said to be "sold under sin" Biblically men are not slaves to Satan, they are slaves to sin. Romans 7 - "It's sin in me that causes me to act like I do." My sins bring great bondage...gluttony...bitterness...gossip...just can't get ultimate control.  We still do it and can't get victory. The bondage of sin is like a nightmare - you can't wake up and can't move and can't call for help.  Sin is just like that. Sin may not seem very bad to you - may feel that you're not so bad at all - but that is not how infinite, perfect God sees it at all. READ ROMANS 3:23:  "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God." READ ROMANS 6:23:  :For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life." The man who thinks very little of his own drinking wishes that he'd never been born when he awakens from a drunken stupor to find that the car he was driving has struck and killed an innocent child who was crossing the street. The person who thinks little of his own sin as long as he believes that it concerns himself alone is dismayed and humbled when he begins to understand that the God who loves him is not pleased at all by his sin. That's why back in the Old Testament in Ezekiel chapter 18, God speaks and God says the soul that sins will die." As I get a little bit older, I think about dying more. I go to a lot of hospital rooms. It seems like every day I'm talking to, dealing with somebody who's dying. I guess that gets in my mind. I do a lot of funerals. How often I've stood here and looked down there at my feet, and there's the casket. Somebody dead is in it. I'll be honest with you. I really don't want to die, but my bondage to sin is going to kill me one day. I really don't want to die. If God were to say, "Roger, it's time to go home to glory," I'd say, "Okay, God. I'm ready, but you know I don't want to leave. I've still got two little children to raise. I've got a wonderful wife. I'm enjoying being a pastor. I like my work. I could do this really almost for eternity." I'm having a great time. But I'm in bondage. One of these days I'm going to be in that box. I'm going to lay in that pine box, that casket, and people will come by and see my body in there. Thank God, I know that through Jesus Christ, I'm not going to be there. It's our bondage to sin that's going to kill us. Now, you and I aren't the only folks who deal with dying. Throughout history, you read any culture that's left any kind of written record and they talk about dying, and you see their burial grounds. Folks have been struggling with this for years. Take your Bibles with me and go back to Psalm 49.  We see the Psalmist speaking directly to this issue. Psalm 49 is really a Psalm about rich materialists. Read Psalm 49:6-9. What he's basically saying is there's no price you can pay even to the point to have somebody die for you on earth that's going to keep you alive so you won't die. The ransom for a life is costly. What he's saying is you can have all the money in the world. You can have a big house and lots of cars and tremendous wealth, but listen, when you come to the end of your life you're going to die. I've heard people say, "Man, look at all I've accumulated." I've heard people say this. If I could have just ten more years, I'd give it all up; but they can't, because when your body wears out it's over, in essence, on this earth. And you read through he rest of Psalm 49, and it's pretty depressing. He talks here about destiny. Everybody's going to die - the rich, the poor, the wise, the fool. Everybody's going to die. Nobody's going to endure. all of a sudden he comes to verse 15 - What does this guy know? READ PSALM 49:15: "God will redeem my life from the grave." How does he do this? How does he beat the system? See the word  redeem.  How does this guy beat the system? It has to do with this whole term redemption. If somehow I can be bought back from being a slave to this sin which binds me, not only can I be free to live this life in a way I never experienced, but thank God, one of these days my body may die, but through redemption which Jesus Christ gives to me I will one day give this whole body back, plus life forever throughout all eternity. Men are all captives - God comes along and says "I want them; I'll pay a price to get them." What does it take to buy a man back from sin?  Nothing less than the precious Blood of Christ. READ 1 PETER 1:18-21:  "FOR WE ARE REDEEMED WITH THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS." WHY BLOOD?  BECAUSE THERE IS LIFE IN THE BLOOD . READ LEVITICUS 17:11,14:  "The life is in the blood." In the human body there are many different kinds of tissues. We define them as muscle, nerve, fat, gland, bone, connective tissues, etc. All these tissues have one thing in common: they are fixed cells, microscopically small and having a specific and limited function. Unlike these fixed tissues, the blood is fluid and mobile, that is, it is not limited to one part of the body but is free to move throughout the entire body and supply the fixed cells with nourishment and carry off the waste products and the "ashes" of cell activity. In the normal human body there are about five quarts of this fluid, and this blood pumped by the heart circulates through the system about every twenty-three seconds, so that every cell in the body is constantly supplied and cleansed. He's telling us here there's life inside that blood. Now you and I know that. There are forces of death in our bodies at this moment which are only being held back because there's still blood flowing through our bodies. Why, you just let the blood stop, and in ten minutes and less in many instances, those forces are set free and the process of irreversible decay begins to destroy that flesh. The only thing that holds those forces back is that blood which brings life. JESUS TELLS US THAT THE NEW COVENANT IS IN HIS BLOOD. READ HEBREWS 9:22.  "Without the shedding of blood, there is no forgiveness of sin." From the death of X until now not one single soul - not one! - has ever been prepared for heaven without the shedding of blood. CAN'T I GET MY SINS FORGIVEN WITHOUT THE BLOOD OF JESUS?  "If I serve God more zealously than other men, will He not forgive me for the sake of my obedience?" "No remission," says the text, "without shedding of blood." "If I am a very wise man with a number of letters after my name - "Can I not get remission by these grand titles of my learning?" "None; none" "If I am a benevolent man.  I have dispersed my money to feed the poor?" "None" says the text. "Without shedding of blood there is no remission." How this puts everyone on the same level! God says: "Put up your money-bags, they will not procure you remission; roll up your diploma, that will not get you remission; forget your car and your goodness, they will not get you remission. Come, you ragged beggar, filthy off-scourings of the world, penniless; come hither; here is remission as much for you, ill-bred and ill-mannered though ye be, as for the noble, the honorable, the titled, and the wealthy. All stand on a level here; the text is universal: "Without shedding of blood there is no remission." DID YOU EVER WONDER WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS BLOOD? There are three hypotheses and one truth: 1.) Crusades - "authentic" blood of Christ was brought back on rags and sold throughout Europe. 2.) Tradition in Church of Holy Sepulchre – The cross stood over the grave of Adam – Christ’s blood dripped on the grave and covered all sin of Adam's race. 3.) Some say it just returned to dust. HERE’S THE REAL ANSWER: 4.) Hebrews 9:12 - "But when Christ appeared as a high priest of the good things that have come...He entered once and for all into the holy place (in heaven), taking not the blood of goats and calves, but His own blood, thus securing an eternal redemption." The picture of redemption can be illustrated by the story of a boy who made a wooden boat. He used fresh paint. He was so proud! The boy placed it on the river and the wind caught the toy sails. Soon his precious boat was out of reach and gone.  He was grief stricken. He searched for days, but couldn't find his boat. Several weeks later the boy sees his boat in a pawn shop. He enters the shop and cries,  "My boat! I made it myself!" The boy demands it. But the owner gave a brusque refusal. "I bought it myself - if you want it, you must pay the price." The little lad left the store crestfallen. It would take many days to save enough money to pay the asking price. He worked hard and sooner than expected the young lad had the money.  He rushed to the store, laid down the money and demanded his boat. This time he received it. As he left the store, the boat tucked tenderly under his arm, He was heard to say: "You are mine, little boat, twice mine. Once because I made you and twice because I bought you." Just so we belong to Christ- once because He made us and twice because He bought us! He redeemed us with His own blood!